How do I get him to change his relationship status on facebook?

[Anonymous]

I've been seeing this guy for about two weeks or so (we're both 20 and work together). I really like him, and he told me recently that I'm the only girl in his life and that he is not interested in other girls (which means we're exclusive, but not necessarily in a relationship). On facebook, I never had a relationship status but his still says "single". One of these days I feel it would be better if he took down his relationship status or changed it. He's having me meet his parents and everything, and says he has very strong feelings for me, so I can assume we're together in some way or another. What do I do so that it doesn't look pushy?

[Sweet-T]

What does it matter whether he changes his Facebook status? I understand that it makes you feel special to put that you're in a relationship with someone on Facebook, but he'll do that in his own time when he's ready. Especially if you aren't officially in a relationship yet.

For my last relationship, I wasn't even going to change my status, but then my ex changed his and sent me a relationship invitation, so I felt obligated to do it. Maybe you can do that.

[Anonymous]

i can completely understand if it bothers you but it has only been two weeks. I mean I wouldn't expect a guy to change his status unless we were boyfriend and girlfriend. so yes I agree that you should wait at least 2 months but if he still has single.then id be a little worried because why wouldn't he wanan show off his new relationship ya know? but for now your fine and it coujld also be he just hasn't thought about it. guys can be pretty clueless

[somechick]

this is exactly why I hate relationship status on facebook. it's putting labels on everything and I hate it. hence I removed it completely. it's not anyone's business who I'm dating. And to answer your question.it has only been 2 weeks. wait a while and see if he changes it. if not, jokingly mention that "it's about time to change that status, don't you think?" and I'm talking about if you 2 been exclusive for at least 2 months.

[Limey]

What do I do so that it doesn't look pushy?

You can't because it is pushy, you have been going out 2 weeks?

plus men hate women trying to put labels on them.

If you asked him, now to change it, you will freak him out.

Give it 2 months and then ask him.

Also, relationship status on facebook. Why do you care that much?

[wally]

same here for me , we'v been together for two months,.

[adat1408]

if you are that worried about a social networking site's relationship status, you shouldn't be dating.