I'm sure it's a mix of physical attraction and my personality.. I just don't get it. I mean I find her beautiful, and I think she's extremely interesting and we have great conversation. But I don't really care if we ever go on another date or not. The only thing really driving me is my sex drive, because that animal instinct in me is still strong.
Think of it like this.. She's going out with me because she really "likes" me and cares about me and wants to be exclusive with me. I go out with her because I find her gorgeous and want to do naughty things with her.
That doesn't mean I don't care about her. I'm capable of compassion lol, I don't want her to get hurt or feel bad, which is why I take her out and call her beautiful, because it makes her feel good. It's just I don't feel that connection, like I wouldn't care if she had sex with other guys or suddenly lost interest in me and we stopped going out. I would move on rather quickly and try to find someone else.
But why does she care about me so much, want to be exclusive and want me all to herself and wants "us" to work out so desperately. Have I just not met the right person yet or is my personality just such a way that I won't really connect with someone like that.
I know it's kind of a weird question and it's hard to answer.. I just don't understand those strong emotions and feelings people have towards one another because I've never felt that sense of entitlement and exclusivity towards another person.
Sometimes I feel that I'm not healthy.. it's like I don't emotionally connect with people. That can't be good lol.
Think of it like this.. She's going out with me because she really "likes" me and cares about me and wants to be exclusive with me. I go out with her because I find her gorgeous and want to do naughty things with her.
That doesn't mean I don't care about her. I'm capable of compassion lol, I don't want her to get hurt or feel bad, which is why I take her out and call her beautiful, because it makes her feel good. It's just I don't feel that connection, like I wouldn't care if she had sex with other guys or suddenly lost interest in me and we stopped going out. I would move on rather quickly and try to find someone else.
But why does she care about me so much, want to be exclusive and want me all to herself and wants "us" to work out so desperately. Have I just not met the right person yet or is my personality just such a way that I won't really connect with someone like that.
I know it's kind of a weird question and it's hard to answer.. I just don't understand those strong emotions and feelings people have towards one another because I've never felt that sense of entitlement and exclusivity towards another person.
Sometimes I feel that I'm not healthy.. it's like I don't emotionally connect with people. That can't be good lol.
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Why does this always happen this should be in behavior
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