I'm definitely more of a listener. BUT... if I have something important to say, I appreciate it if the other person lets me finish my thought and doesn't throw me off and make me lose my place. ("I promise! I'll get to the point very soon!")
No I realise that noone cares what I have to say. I've tried to find my voice through art but I should basically forget about it. Because the environment is so toxic. That's people basically... They are too concerned about their own problems and issues to care about mine. If my mother wanted me to be successful in life she'd had done better than to not bring me down a peg like she always did. She's made me quite an anxious shy person. And the people I encounter are too extroverted and fabulous... Constantly asked indirectly in prettier words who the fuck am I?
It all depends on my mood at the time, but mostly I love to listen and interact as much as I can... I can be a big talker when needed. I also do sales so Its necessary
I figure if anything is realatable they will share something in return or feel more comfortable talking. But maybe it is better to assume nothing and just ask questions. The issue there is thinking of a question. I would like to hear new things and questions imply or guide too much, I don't want to interrogate anyone... Just hear about their life. etc
Im really not a talker when I first meet someone then after a while I open up, but even then only talk when something neess to be said. Or make a silly joke.😉
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I'm definitely more of a listener. BUT... if I have something important to say, I appreciate it if the other person lets me finish my thought and doesn't throw me off and make me lose my place. ("I promise! I'll get to the point very soon!")
Lmao i hate when that happens
@DizzyDesii yeah
Most people I meet actually talk more about themselves than they really like to listen me talk about myself.
Thats me lol
Yep, that is you.
I don't know
I don't talk much apparently😂
I mostly just listen and make jokes.
I see lol
I try and say the least about myself because I realised that noone actually cares
Thats sad. But the right people care
No I realise that noone cares what I have to say. I've tried to find my voice through art but I should basically forget about it. Because the environment is so toxic. That's people basically... They are too concerned about their own problems and issues to care about mine. If my mother wanted me to be successful in life she'd had done better than to not bring me down a peg like she always did. She's made me quite an anxious shy person. And the people I encounter are too extroverted and fabulous... Constantly asked indirectly in prettier words who the fuck am I?
@lilyanony1 Hi, I don't know you but I care <3 How are you?
That's cute
I am anti social in person yo...
Loll
😏😏😏
people love to talk about themselves except I don't so I prefer listening most of the time.
Fair enough
Same
Well, it all depends on how long I know the person. If it's someone I met recently, I talk more about myself so they get to know me.
Lol what a way to ease in talking about yourself
Seems like it. 😂
I hate hate hate hate talking about myself, yet I do it too much. Usually take turns but I’d prefer to learn more about other person
Lol of u hate it, how do u end up doing it
*if you
I ask myself that often as well
It all depends on my mood at the time, but mostly I love to listen and interact as much as I can... I can be a big talker when needed. I also do sales so Its necessary
Ahh makes sense
Generally I talk too much about me considering I want to hear about them not me.
Oh wow lol
I figure if anything is realatable they will share something in return or feel more comfortable talking. But maybe it is better to assume nothing and just ask questions. The issue there is thinking of a question. I would like to hear new things and questions imply or guide too much, I don't want to interrogate anyone... Just hear about their life. etc
I am really shy so I always listen and talk when the other person is done 😂
Awww lol
I like to talk one on one but would rather listen than take the floor
Ahh ok
I would listen more than I talk. Can't really learn anything about you if I'm bumping my gums
Lol alrighty
I'm a Listener. I enjoy listening to the stories, insight, opinions and talks from a Girl!
Yea you were a great listener and good at holding convos
Aww! Thank you!
I tend to talk about myself a lot because I'm by myself 90% of the time and socially awkward but im trying to catch myself when I do
Same
Due to my working for the Federal Govt for 20+ years, I can’t really talk about those years, bu I can talk about many other things.
Ahh i see
Depends on the person. It goes both ways for me. I usually like it more if the person talks about themselves more.
Makes u feel less guilty?
No, the less I gotta talk the better.
I'm more of a listener when I meet people and interact, but I like to talk about my projects
What kinda projects
Whatever the heck I'm interested in doing at the time... Mostly my car right now
I like listening to others. We take turns but I mostly hear them talk.
Yea i suck at listening lol
LMAO 😂 Why? You're not patient enough?
I think it's about even for me... well I tend to listen more.
Well thats nice too
Im really not a talker when I first meet someone then after a while I open up, but even then only talk when something neess to be said. Or make a silly joke.😉