If you're talking about nature, in the scenario you describe, the male's cheating is irrelevant to the woman who is his partner. She gets his kids, his support, his resources and protection. Whether he fucks a few other partners on the side doesn't change all that, she only freaks out if it's more than 'just sex', if he's actually falling for other women, now her access to his resources/support is threatened.
This is the opposite of male interests, where if some other male orbiter she isn't fucking cares about her, hey, that's a boosted chance for his children, where if she's fucking around its a disaster, now he might be supporting another man's kids not his own.
Well let me from tell you my story when I was younger I cheated on almost every girl I dated slowly I started realizing that i was being a piece of shit and that I needed to stop its been 2 years sense that day and I haven't cheated on a girl sense than and I won't cause cheating sucks for both sides as for the cheater he slowly becomes a addict and in extreme cases goes crazy and well for the ones who got cheated on well there are lot of things that could go wrong but yea I am just saying that it is possible for someone who has been cheating a good bit of his life to stop and become a much better person who is loyal, kind and friendly
Men cheat because women use sex as a tool or simply withhold sex for arbitrary reasons. What makes men look away from you? Its because you have nothing to provide. You dont bring anything to the table. Already we see marriage is an absolutely shitty deal for men and women are becoming increasingly bitter bitchy naggy and entitled while men are expected to give up everything for little compensation. Its not even about sex men cheat because women dont treat us with respect.
You whores can fuck off. Give men a fucking reason to stay we already have every incentive to abandon you altogether with the existence of #metoo and feminism.
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Bullshit, I never cheated and refuse to cheat. Only whores and man whores cheat. If both Men and women saved themselves for marriage you wouldn't have nearly as many divorces and infidelities. Men get more attention when they're married, but cheaters don't realize they are destroying the very thing they are attracted to. Women are attracted to committed men, because they want one, but if they take one then he is no longer committed. If you weren't able to save it for your wife before marriage, you aren't likely to after. I've turned away meaningless sex, and would never marry a woman that sleeps around.
You say that if men could have as much sex as they want, there would be no such thing as monogamy. That's completely wrong. Studies show that the more access you have to something, the less you want it.
I won't bother to address the rest of your post because the other comments have already done so.
The result on increased choice is super interesting, people almost get overwhelmed with choices and as such dont want to make any choice... psychology interests me
Men don't want to get married, it's just something we have to do because of Walt fucking Disney! Every girl want's a massive diamond ring and the security that legal access to their husbands cash gives them as they get old and their looks fade. Not the answer women want to hear, but the one that we all talk about when you're not there.
@cvmslayer I don't know, I was gonna ask you. I'm banging a 25yo who's dumb as a rock so I'm a happy man. My ex wife got the house, but I kept my business (which was what she was really after), so I bought another house. She had to sell because she couldn't afford the taxes on the property, or understand the meaning of the word 'Budget'. Now I can see the mass rise in the appeal of dumb chicks. If I want intelligent conversation, I'll talk to my peers, but when I'm at home and she's round, she can prattle on about the Kardashians, read trashy magazines and ask if 'Trump really is that dumb, or is it a hoax?' etc, and just make occasional 'Hmmmm... Good point' affirmations. Then bend her over the sofa and smash the shit out of her - and she thinks it's love. I'm in heaven.
Come on! Not all cheat unless you drive them to do it by withholding sex or spending your time with your friends instead of them. People need intimacy and conversation from a partner. When they go silent there goes their interest and they go elsewhere for comforting. I never knew any person happy in their relationship to cheat.
Because that’s not true, a lot of men are loyal and enjoy the idea of being sexual with one person alone. People are in love, I guess you haven’t experienced love yet and I feel sorry for you.
Yes and no. People lie, and possessing fantastic morals seems like a myth nowadays. But, I live in the city so it's a lot of both worlds.
People just need a lot to do and less time to waste. Like, we need everything u can think of. Else, sex will be the #1 stop. I don't know, I feel like yeah, yes and no.
I agree more men cheat than woman. Women are usually smarter about it. If they feel unsatisfied they will make it known and find someone to fulfill their needs (just in my experience). Men will usually (NOT ALWAYS) give their dick to any pretty face that wants it... The problem is there are so many choices now. So many different lifestyles and kinks. Ask yourself how many women like the idea of breaking up a relationship "a homewrecker". IT'S A TWO WAY STREET PEOPLE! Anyway it's rare to have what's considered a solid marriage these days. It's no longer the 1950s... Honestly as a man, I like the idea of a honest monogamous marriage but I will never find that. There are always too many options out there. Desires needing to be filled. I couldn't tell you how many times my exes have asked for an open relationship. Monogamy is dead.
Because not all men cheat (just like not all women cheat). I’ve been cheated on but I know there are plenty of men out there who are faithful. My grandfather, uncles and cousin are a few of them (I’m not counting my father because he took off when I was a baby). If certain men cheat, that label only pertains to those men individually, not the entire gender.
It depends on what the man is looking for. Some men are just shitty assholes and just want to fuck. Those kinds of guys will most likely have trouble finding serious relationships in the future when they become more mature. The other kind of man, is looking for a serious relationship. He’ll likely be mature and very committed.. but he’s harder to find. He won’t dive for casual sex like the immature guys do
Not all men cheat nor would all men decide to cheat if given the opportunity. I know this might be hard to believe but a good portion of men fall so in love with the woman they're with, they could never even think about cheating on her. I really hate the word "all" because people use it and say it like they know for fact that it's true or that everyone is the same and that's not the case, not all men are the same.
I think that some women like to have a man who treats them like pieces of toilet paper, a kind of masochistic pleasure. I call it the pornstar's wife syndrome. The porn star is the one who has sex for a living. Therefore he cheats on his wife to live. These women are usually people with dependent personality disorder in which mental games are created like, he fucks the others but then always comes back to me because I am better, because I give him what the others cannot give him.
Don’t get me started on the whole “all men cheat” generalizing is complete BS. Maybe you had a bad experience recently but that doesn’t mean every guy cheats. That’s like saying every girl works a late night street corner... which is obviously false and so is this every guy cheats crap
Not true friend, I've never cheated but been cheated on I'd rather call it quits and tell my partner STRAIGHT UP that there's someone else and that I'd rather end it than cheat cuz I've been heart broken before and it's a terrible feeling, you can tell if a guy is REAL based on how he feels for the woman
Because (1) this isn't the reality WE live in, but YOU live in. And (2) Because you're anonymous. It's usually those who say these things.
I believe women cheat just as much as men. In fact I've been the shoulder to cry on for friends who got cheated on, and those broken friends happened to be men more often than women.
If you keep being that closeminded and hateful towards men. You'll only push them away. Hell, I'd probably cheat on you if I were one, for shits and giggles.
Well everyone wants someone in their life you can cheat all you want when you are young but as you get older you lose the energy and will to cheat or be with multiple partners. In the age above 50 and 60 you just want one person who you can talk and spend time with who understands and loves you.
Because not all men cheat? No more then women do pretty sure but I don't know... If all the men in sum1s life are cheaters tho I would say it's time to look at the common denominator 😬
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If you're talking about nature, in the scenario you describe, the male's cheating is irrelevant to the woman who is his partner. She gets his kids, his support, his resources and protection. Whether he fucks a few other partners on the side doesn't change all that, she only freaks out if it's more than 'just sex', if he's actually falling for other women, now her access to his resources/support is threatened.
This is the opposite of male interests, where if some other male orbiter she isn't fucking cares about her, hey, that's a boosted chance for his children, where if she's fucking around its a disaster, now he might be supporting another man's kids not his own.
Well let me from tell you my story when I was younger I cheated on almost every girl I dated slowly I started realizing that i was being a piece of shit and that I needed to stop its been 2 years sense that day and I haven't cheated on a girl sense than and I won't cause cheating sucks for both sides as for the cheater he slowly becomes a addict and in extreme cases goes crazy and well for the ones who got cheated on well there are lot of things that could go wrong but yea I am just saying that it is possible for someone who has been cheating a good bit of his life to stop and become a much better person who is loyal, kind and friendly
Men cheat because women use sex as a tool or simply withhold sex for arbitrary reasons. What makes men look away from you? Its because you have nothing to provide. You dont bring anything to the table. Already we see marriage is an absolutely shitty deal for men and women are becoming increasingly bitter bitchy naggy and entitled while men are expected to give up everything for little compensation. Its not even about sex men cheat because women dont treat us with respect.
You whores can fuck off. Give men a fucking reason to stay we already have every incentive to abandon you altogether with the existence of #metoo and feminism.
Bullshit, I never cheated and refuse to cheat. Only whores and man whores cheat. If both Men and women saved themselves for marriage you wouldn't have nearly as many divorces and infidelities. Men get more attention when they're married, but cheaters don't realize they are destroying the very thing they are attracted to. Women are attracted to committed men, because they want one, but if they take one then he is no longer committed. If you weren't able to save it for your wife before marriage, you aren't likely to after. I've turned away meaningless sex, and would never marry a woman that sleeps around.
Bullllllshit.
You say that if men could have as much sex as they want, there would be no such thing as monogamy. That's completely wrong. Studies show that the more access you have to something, the less you want it.
I won't bother to address the rest of your post because the other comments have already done so.
The result on increased choice is super interesting, people almost get overwhelmed with choices and as such dont want to make any choice... psychology interests me
Men don't want to get married, it's just something we have to do because of Walt fucking Disney! Every girl want's a massive diamond ring and the security that legal access to their husbands cash gives them as they get old and their looks fade. Not the answer women want to hear, but the one that we all talk about when you're not there.
Damn what a strong post, did incels. co shit down?
@cvmslayer I don't know, I was gonna ask you. I'm banging a 25yo who's dumb as a rock so I'm a happy man. My ex wife got the house, but I kept my business (which was what she was really after), so I bought another house. She had to sell because she couldn't afford the taxes on the property, or understand the meaning of the word 'Budget'.
Now I can see the mass rise in the appeal of dumb chicks. If I want intelligent conversation, I'll talk to my peers, but when I'm at home and she's round, she can prattle on about the Kardashians, read trashy magazines and ask if 'Trump really is that dumb, or is it a hoax?' etc, and just make occasional 'Hmmmm... Good point' affirmations. Then bend her over the sofa and smash the shit out of her - and she thinks it's love. I'm in heaven.
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Firstly., They found a man that do not cheat.
Secondly men need women and women need men. And it will never change.
Come on! Not all cheat unless you drive them to do it by withholding sex or spending your time with your friends instead of them. People need intimacy and conversation from a partner. When they go silent there goes their interest and they go elsewhere for comforting. I never knew any person happy in their relationship to cheat.
Because that’s not true, a lot of men are loyal and enjoy the idea of being sexual with one person alone. People are in love, I guess you haven’t experienced love yet and I feel sorry for you.
Yes and no. People lie, and possessing fantastic morals seems like a myth nowadays. But, I live in the city so it's a lot of both worlds.
People just need a lot to do and less time to waste. Like, we need everything u can think of. Else, sex will be the #1 stop. I don't know, I feel like yeah, yes and no.
I agree more men cheat than woman. Women are usually smarter about it. If they feel unsatisfied they will make it known and find someone to fulfill their needs (just in my experience). Men will usually (NOT ALWAYS) give their dick to any pretty face that wants it... The problem is there are so many choices now. So many different lifestyles and kinks. Ask yourself how many women like the idea of breaking up a relationship "a homewrecker". IT'S A TWO WAY STREET PEOPLE! Anyway it's rare to have what's considered a solid marriage these days. It's no longer the 1950s... Honestly as a man, I like the idea of a honest monogamous marriage but I will never find that. There are always too many options out there. Desires needing to be filled. I couldn't tell you how many times my exes have asked for an open relationship. Monogamy is dead.
Because not all men cheat (just like not all women cheat). I’ve been cheated on but I know there are plenty of men out there who are faithful. My grandfather, uncles and cousin are a few of them (I’m not counting my father because he took off when I was a baby). If certain men cheat, that label only pertains to those men individually, not the entire gender.
It depends on what the man is looking for. Some men are just shitty assholes and just want to fuck. Those kinds of guys will most likely have trouble finding serious relationships in the future when they become more mature. The other kind of man, is looking for a serious relationship. He’ll likely be mature and very committed.. but he’s harder to find. He won’t dive for casual sex like the immature guys do
Not all men cheat nor would all men decide to cheat if given the opportunity. I know this might be hard to believe but a good portion of men fall so in love with the woman they're with, they could never even think about cheating on her. I really hate the word "all" because people use it and say it like they know for fact that it's true or that everyone is the same and that's not the case, not all men are the same.
I think that some women like to have a man who treats them like pieces of toilet paper, a kind of masochistic pleasure. I call it the pornstar's wife syndrome. The porn star is the one who has sex for a living. Therefore he cheats on his wife to live. These women are usually people with dependent personality disorder in which mental games are created like, he fucks the others but then always comes back to me because I am better, because I give him what the others cannot give him.
Don’t get me started on the whole “all men cheat” generalizing is complete BS. Maybe you had a bad experience recently but that doesn’t mean every guy cheats. That’s like saying every girl works a late night street corner... which is obviously false and so is this every guy cheats crap
Not true friend, I've never cheated but been cheated on I'd rather call it quits and tell my partner STRAIGHT UP that there's someone else and that I'd rather end it than cheat cuz I've been heart broken before and it's a terrible feeling, you can tell if a guy is REAL based on how he feels for the woman
What? How can you tell that?
Actions speak louder than words
Because (1) this isn't the reality WE live in, but YOU live in.
And (2) Because you're anonymous. It's usually those who say these things.
I believe women cheat just as much as men. In fact I've been the shoulder to cry on for friends who got cheated on, and those broken friends happened to be men more often than women.
If you keep being that closeminded and hateful towards men. You'll only push them away. Hell, I'd probably cheat on you if I were one, for shits and giggles.
Well everyone wants someone in their life you can cheat all you want when you are young but as you get older you lose the energy and will to cheat or be with multiple partners. In the age above 50 and 60 you just want one person who you can talk and spend time with who understands and loves you.
Because not all men cheat? No more then women do pretty sure but I don't know... If all the men in sum1s life are cheaters tho I would say it's time to look at the common denominator 😬
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