Scenario: You have to live in the same house as your spouses, and you raise your children together. You can have 3-5 spouses. Also, no birth control or contraception is allowed. Also, your spouses are very jealous and they're always fighting with each other. If you're a woman, you have to deal with fewer children, and if you're a man, more children. There's no divorce allowed.Forms of Polygamy: Polyandry is when a woman takes in two or more husbands which is rarely practiced, though in Nepal and some parts of China. Polygyny is more common which is a marriage of a man and his many wives. Woman is pregnant by one of the four guys.
Would you like the idea of leading a harem or is that too much for you?
I dated two women in another country I visited often. They were friends and we would stay together. We would go to the beach or wherever during the day, often with the children of each, then spend the night alone as a threesome partying and making love. (They did not identify themselves as bisexual, but still they made love to each other.) It was extremely fun and satisfying, but then again things are much easier when you are on vacation and only maintaining the relationship for a week at a time.
There were significant rules about the arrangement. One of the women was number one. She did not allow me and number two to be intimate alone. After making love as a threesome at night, number one stayed with me and number two had to stay in another room. It was not anything that number two objected to, it was more of a way to structure a tricky arrangement. Eventually number two went away though as number one wanted a committed, monogamous relationship.
Well i won't touch any of them till they have fought its out to determine to pecking order. Unless they kill each other then ill just run away. Other then that sounds fun enough, though i feel like i couldn't get as close to all of them as i would like to.
i currently have a girlfriend and casually dating three other girls. The girls don't fight, they all get along. There are many misconceptions about this and you've listed a few of them. Also, in traditional relationships with one man and a few wives, compared to modern relationships, id say the women are far more likely to have more children. Most normal couples these days have 0 to 2 kids and on average maybe like 1. Id think most men with very high desires are seeking 2 or more kids per woman, i know i am.
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All the women and yourself are living in the same house. These rules aren’t misconceptions, they’re sort of random. You didn’t understand the question, with no contraception, expect your wives to become pregnant every year unless you abstain. You either have fun with many women and face the consequences.
Yeah id like to have at least 10 kids but ideally more. So im looking for 2 or 3 wives. They won't fight because its the mans job to set them straight. You can ask my girlfriend or my exgf which is one of the ones im dating again what would happen if they caused drama and they will tell you they wouldn't dream of it. Id come down hard on their asses. Lol
It can be hard work... i was in a 3 way relationship for about 2 years, we all got on well and only split as we became more like friends, if there was an argument between 2 the 3rd would mediate.. but beyond that i think it just becomes hard work, i would struggle to keep 2 women pleased let alone 5... but if no one is leading (like my 3 way) it works i guess?
The bible makes a point if You are married to more than one woman it has to be at least three of them because if it's only two they will always fight. So I guess if I was going to go for the harem it would be 3 or more because men with greater wisdom and whom actually done it advised Me on how to do it. Now honestly though I wouldn't do it because one is enough and any more than that it becomes a juggling act.
My first thought is to point out something behind you, then run away screaming while you're looking away. But I actually think I could make it work, with one little thing you didn't technically say I couldn't: rather than having 3-5 wives, have 3-5 spouses. I doubt I'd do well as the only man for multiple women, but another man or two and maybe I could make it work. It'd probably still be far more trouble than it's worth, though.
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No no, this is a heterosexual question 😂 That’s too easy, think of the children
Women logically can't have more men like that or she has to give eatch a child same time to be fair. and what kind of man is going to alow a dog near his lady?
that sounds great. but i'd have to be very rich, a real life harem of average people would be gross
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I think you're confusing a harem with polygamy. If you have a harem you're probably rich and powerful. If you're a polygamist you're just white, trash, and maybe in a cult. Lol
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You do know that polygamy is a long-time practice in other countries and throughout history? It can be practiced in Muslim-countries too. And it's just a fantasy-type of question, I wasn't being serious. Polygamy and harem are like the same thing.
Key words "in other countries and throughout history". Reserved for those stuck in a 1000 year time warp (i. e. middleastern countries). Yeah i realize it wasn't a serious question Nor was my response i probably should've thrown an emoji or 2 in. It wasn't my intent to upset you. I did mean the differences in harem and polygamy though. The good news is i think most people get the difference.
not really. "no birth control" in this day and age would be folly of the guy unless he either has a small sex drive ir wants about 5 plus (twins etc) every year. as for "the always jealous" would be very unlikely seeing as i would make as sure as possible that all would get along. and that brings me to the "no divorce" part. any that stayed jealous would be divorced and kicked to the curb.
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