Would you like the idea of leading a harem or is that too much for you?

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Scenario: You have to live in the same house as your spouses, and you raise your children together. You can have 3-5 spouses. Also, no birth control or contraception is allowed. Also, your spouses are very jealous and they're always fighting with each other. If you're a woman, you have to deal with fewer children, and if you're a man, more children. There's no divorce allowed. Forms of Polygamy: Polyandry  is when a woman takes in two or more husbands which is rarely practiced, though in Nepal and some parts of China.  Polygyny  is more common which is a marriage of a man and his many wives.

pepperhicks · Accepted Answer

I dated two women in another country I visited often. They were friends and we would stay together. We would go to the beach or wherever during the day, often with the children of each, then spend the night alone as a threesome partying and making love. (They did not identify themselves as bisexual, but still they made love to each other.) It was extremely fun and satisfying, but then again things are much easier when you are on vacation and only maintaining the relationship for a week at a time.

There were significant rules about the arrangement. One of the women was number one. She did not allow me and number two to be intimate alone. After making love as a threesome at night, number one stayed with me and number two had to stay in another room. It was not anything that number two objected to, it was more of a way to structure a tricky arrangement. Eventually number two went away though as number one wanted a committed, monogamous relationship.

EyesOfGod · Accepted Answer

Well i won't touch any of them till they have fought its out to determine to pecking order. Unless they kill each other then ill just run away. Other then that sounds fun enough, though i feel like i couldn't get as close to all of them as i would like to.

Nonfrivolous · Accepted Answer

disgusting, im also disgusted by my ottoman sultan ancestors who had sex slaves and harems

Liz_thorne · Accepted Answer

I checked out at the no birth control/contraception part

bamesjond0069 · Answer

i currently have a girlfriend and casually dating three other girls. The girls don't fight, they all get along. There are many misconceptions about this and you've listed a few of them. Also, in traditional relationships with one man and a few wives, compared to modern relationships, id say the women are far more likely to have more children. Most normal couples these days have 0 to 2 kids and on average maybe like 1. Id think most men with very high desires are seeking 2 or more kids per woman, i know i am.

MrHopper · Answer

It can be hard work... i was in a 3 way relationship for about 2 years, we all got on well and only split as we became more like friends, if there was an argument between 2 the 3rd would mediate.. but beyond that i think it just becomes hard work, i would struggle to keep 2 women pleased let alone 5... but if no one is leading (like my 3 way) it works i guess?

jkm1864 · Answer

The bible makes a point if You are married to more than one woman it has to be at least three of them because if it's only two they will always fight. So I guess if I was going to go for the harem it would be 3 or more because men with greater wisdom and whom actually done it advised Me on how to do it. Now honestly though I wouldn't do it because one is enough and any more than that it becomes a juggling act.

_SOARER · Answer

Maybe when I was 14 I would have thought "Yeah"
Now not so much haha

Harems are for eastern kings with disgusting sexual appetites.

I am gonna be the chad Christian monarch with one wife and 8 kids. :p

NamerOfStars · Answer

My first thought is to point out something behind you, then run away screaming while you're looking away. But I actually think I could make it work, with one little thing you didn't technically say I couldn't: rather than having 3-5 wives, have 3-5  spouses . I doubt I'd do well as the only man for multiple women, but another man or two and maybe I could make it work. It'd probably still be far more trouble than it's worth, though.

Ripper_E · Answer

Having a lover with the consent of my partner is one thing. I would never want to have multiple spouses.

SlothySlob · Answer

Uf, that last picture. What was it again? Abused the newborn because jealousy or something like that? I also don't think I'd be capable of leading a harem. Then again I don't know until I try.

zagor · Answer

When I was 20 that was a fantasy. Now I don't think I could handle that many.

mrgspoter · Answer

Women logically can't have more men like that or she has to give eatch a child same time to be fair. and what kind of man is going to alow a dog near his lady?

007kingifrit · Answer

that sounds great. but i'd have to be very rich, a real life harem of average people would be gross

Anonymous · Answer

I think you're confusing a harem with polygamy. If you have a harem you're probably rich and powerful. If you're a polygamist you're just white, trash, and maybe in a cult. Lol

Cryptic-Game · Answer

I'd be too jealous of other men being around my woman to be comfortable with it.

Physics-Man · Answer

I'd love to have a harem of cute Asian girls living with and chasing after me like in Anime!

startingfitness · Answer

I don't think it woud work out with my personality

Juxtapose · Answer

Nope! Not without contraceptives.

magiusX26 · Answer

i would but not under your rules

JoseLuisGonalez · Answer

No there's only room for one girl in my life.

Lovegirls44 · Answer

Yeah... i dont have any problem

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