Why is this such a big deal anyways and what's really going on?

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I don't understand why he's upset. So we don't sleep in the same bed anymore. And I've been sick and tires of going to bed alone every night,

it's been quite a few months without any sex, I want to say almost a year but instead of being interested in me he plays some PC game online with girls/guys for hours every night. I got tired of going to bed alone by myself every night so now I sleep on the couch.

And he still doesn't care even though so tried talking to him etc but he doesn't understand why it's a big deal that we aren't being intimate with each other. I'm really starting to resent him.

I honestly have tried getting his attention but I don't feel important or even attractive anymore to him.
I actually came across this other persons question and wanted to post this below because this is EXACTLY what it feels like:

Lack of physical intimacy is one of the most obvious signs that he doesn’t love you.

If he doesn’t want to be intimate with you, it means one of two things: either he has someone else to do that with or that he doesn’t find you attractive anymore.
Why is this such a big deal anyways and what's really going on?
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