Relationship feels longer than it actually is?

[DesiVega]

is this good or bad... what does it mean?

just curious

[ShootingStar5]

Hard to say... by longer do you mean it feels like you two have been together longer than you have because time seems to be dragging? Or do you mean you have a stronger connection than you would normally feel in the time that you've been dating? If it's the former, I'd say it's bad news. But if it's the latter, than it's a good sign.

In my experience it's the opposite that's a good sign though. When I was with my ex it always felt like we had been together longer than we had. We fought a lot and it was an unhealthy relationship, so this was an example of the time dragging. But with my current boyfriend, I can't believe we've already been together for over two months. It feels like it was just a couple of weeks ago that we became official. We have so much fun together and enjoy each others' company so much that time has flown by!

[DesiVega]

What I mean that is only been a month but it feels like a lot longer... but in a good way... its difficult to explain

[Skyler123]

OMG, I know EXACTLY how you feel! My boyfriend and I feel the exact same way. When I first met him it's like I knew him for years I was so comfortable around him. We are always talking too, we talk about almost everything. It feels like we've been together for years. I guess that I just enjoy being around him so much to the point that time is just non existent. That is until I think about when him and I got together officially. lol

[angyismytitle]

It's a good thing I guess, because it means that your comfortable with that person so it just feels like you've put in more time into the relationship than you actually have, or it means you just have a skewed sense of time. Other than that I wouldn't really think anything of it.

[Buddilyn]

for me iv been dating my best friend for 2 weeks now but we have been best friends for months. we feel like its been 2 months that we have been dating but I think that's because we were so close before we started dating and now we're even closer. so maybe if you were friends beforehand that could explain it.

[h3lpm3plz]

i think it means your having a great time and I hope things will continue that way :) u'll b fine

[DesiVega]

going good thus far... 7 months and counting

[rian13]

Its all about focus. when you keep focusing and doing some kinda work then you feel like its been a very long time since you've been doing it. but in reality its not that long time. its just your focus

[InMyHeart]

i think it's good. it probably means that you're enjoying it a lot.