Boyfriend gets jealous when I massage friends and family?

[Anonymous]

I wanna be a massage therapist and I practice by giving people massages (not strangers) and he always gets jealous? Is it my fault or is he just insecure

[SjE78]

you need to be very careful, as those types of relationships will only end in tears... they often develop into very toxic and controlling experiences, many times the one who is teh issue will not trust and will always manipulate their partner, often blaming them for cheating and doing things behind their back... if it starts going that way... walk away.

[sadMeester]

He might be insecure... or tense. Maybe ask if HE wants a massage?

[Asker]

Yeah maybe but how can I make him not be

[sadMeester]

With... a massage. You didn't get it.

He might want a massage. It's also well known that people visit those in the profession you're pursuing to relax. Did you expect all your clients to be there to treat physical injuries?

[Asker]

Lol I do it too him too but he still doesn’t like if I do it to other people

[sadMeester]

Are you in a big city? This matters because in costal America and all of Canada fancy massage places are brothels.

In America it's happy ending massages, which is still gross, but it's the cheap places.

[DavidFox]

Why would his jealousy be your fault?

[Anonymous]

That's a massive red flag

[Asker]

Red flag for him or me

[gandolph3]

He is insecure