How would any of us manage a situation where your girlfriend or boyfriend wouldn't touch you and /or would not have s3x with you for weeks?

[Anonymous]

I need to understand or at least try to find a answer that can help me understand why someone that says he loves you doesn't want to have s3x with you anymore. I've tried one way and another way to get my boyfriend to be honest and tell me why can't or won't have s3x anymore, he says he loves me but he doesn't want s3x because after we would have an argument or fight and he doesn't want to keep having the same problem and he wants to enjoy our days just cuddling and not fighting, he says that it was because we would have s3x the reason why we would fight all the time. I don't know what to really think about the cheap and lame answer he tells me I believe that something more is going on but he won't say anything besides that and I'm tired to hearing that excuse over and over again. Someone who has been through the same please help

[Daniela1982]

Why don't you talk to him about it since he has the reason, not us. If you love him and he you then I see no reason why you two can't be honest with each other and maybe even get back on track. As it is said, don't go to bed angry. Talk it out and go to sleep in peace, not turmoil.

[Asker]

I've tried many many different ways to find out what's going on with him but no luck yet

[Daniela1982]

Grab him by his balls and say if you don't listen to what I have to say I'm gonna squeeze harder until you do. So spit it out or talk with a high voice the rest of your life.

[JuliaStyles]

What do you think is the real reason as the one you gave sounds like a cop out? For instance, have you gained a lot of weight, have some bad breath from some unknown tooth decay or gum disease, don't take care of your sex hygiene, or something else you may not realize?

[Asker]

I have an issue with bad smells, and Yuki things that might cause bad smells so I'm always making sure I don't have a bad aroma or anything like that, bed breath I honestly believe we all have that issue I'm sure that some might be less awful than others but 4sure we all have it lol, I haven't gained weight so it can't be that either I don't know what is going on i really don't

[Giggletr0nn]

Sometimes it's not a matter of lack of love; sometimes the sex just gets boring

[Asker]

Well I think that now it became very boring, we had 1 year or extremely good and crazy s3x and he also included others in it, I wasn't ok with that but in a way I was forced to make he's fantasies true and after that now he's tired, just not in the mood, he's to full after dinner, he has a very very bad headache or whatever he's excuse is, I don't know what and why this is, he has changed so much and it hurts because I've been just with him and for him only, I don't want or desire anyone else but him and as much as he says he loves me it doesn't feel like he does

[Anonymous]

I wouldn’t be with them? Lol