Were you surprised to learn that both liw self esteem AND cocky arrogant males BOTH can be total cheaters and untrustworthy lowlifes?

[Anonymous]

I work with guys and i get to hear them talk about women and see how they act too and i know of two guys... One is so arrogant and a charming narcissistic player (he's successful at it too) and he has a girlfriend but flirts with multiple women at work (and thats just at work... Imagine how bad he is elsewhere and online).

Then there's a man who seems to have low self esteem but he has a girlfriend and he openly talks about how he doesn't have morals and cheats and wants to help other girls cheat on their bfs with him. ._.

Lowlifes all around me. I'm so glad I am celibate until marriage and knoe what I want in a man. I can wait. I don't need to settle and get my heart and body dragged through the mud by losers like these guys.

[Madladd]

Commitment problems doesn't have to do with confidence but it's about a person's goals and choices in life. They just choose to be cheaters. Even girls do that.

[Asker]

How often do you hear people use the excuse for cheaters and bad behavior that someone did it cause they have low self esteem?

[Madladd]

a lot specially if it's a girl.

[WesBrewer]

I am not surprised at all, it makes sense, I've seen that in movies too lol.

[Asker]

Can i ask which movies hade low self esteem cheater?

[WesBrewer]

one of the American pie movies did.

[Asker]

Thanks!

[WesBrewer]

anytime

[On_cloud_wine]

Nope. I knew a girl who cheated on her boyfriend and blamed it on his depression. It’s not about gender or personality.

[Asker]

Yeah thats jsut ridiculous cause when does it stop? Next we will hear someone murdered someone cause they were depressed and had low self worth.

[On_cloud_wine]

It stops when you do t take bs

[Asker]

Yeah... we are worth more than to just be with someone who sees us as a toy to put aside

[Anonymous]

Uh huh yes surprised! I held you to a higher standard at one point!