Is there a reason why my boyfriend won’t meet my family?

[Bella2020]

Several times now my boyfriend has dodged meeting my family. I’ve meet his several times. I’m frustrated and my family is too at this point. We’ve been dating going on 4 months we’ve booth had Covid so that’s not a concern but I’m getting extremely frustrated. His excuse is always “I’m tired” or “I had a long day at work”

[Anonymous]

Three possibilities:

1-He may just be nervous that they will not approve of him.
2-He might just feel that it is too early, allow him to suggest meeting your family. You don’t have to pressure him.
3-He may not feel it is necessary. Some guys know that they will not be around for much longer. He could be giving you a sign... some guys do that.

[Bella2020]

We talk about getting married and he wants me to move in so I’m guessing he’s not going anywhere

[Waldoe]

if he won't come by, stop going out to meet him, he needs to come to pick you up if he wants to see you

[Anonymous]

My guess is that he had to hit on you or pursue you

[Bella2020]

That makes no sense. Plenty of my exes have meet my family yet after 4 months we’ll make plans and at the last minute he’ll make an excuse as to why he can’t go

[Opinion Owner]

I was being sarcastic and speaking of my lifelong resentment towards the gender role that men have to court women or make the first move, etc.

[Sia_nee]

Because he doesn't want to

[Blackgirlasja]

Thank you!