Your boyfriend secretly is dressing up as a girl. How would You react?

[JanekPL]

How would You react if your boyfriend after some time let's say 1 year of relationship said to You that he likes to secretly dress up in girly clothes. He won't do that in public or anything but he like to do this in private.
Second question how would You react if You catch your boyfriend in girly clothes yours or his own with non knowledge that he is into that staff

[SueShe]

That would cause a serious conflict in the relation and probably the end of it.

For one, if he has that type of psychological issue, then he should have made his girlfriend aware beforehand and not let her believe that he was a normal male.

I can understand that some people act weird but that should have been the first thing to tell a potential girlfriend.

As for the second question. If I would catch the offender wearing my clothes without my knowledge, approval or consent, he would have less than 10 minutes to leave my place, never to return and to pay me in full for all my clothes. Since I cannot know which ones he has misused, he would have to replace every single item because I would never wear any item anymore.

This would be one of the worst offense he could do to my personal integrity. I would probably press charge against him for abuse of confidence and sexual abuse.

[Mystic_Nova]

I'd tell him I've enjoyed his company but we need to break up.

Trans and drag queens aren't my thing.

I'd break it off as delicately as I could.

[Anonymous]

My ex used to try on my clothes and we would often fight about it.

[Anonymous]

It's honestly not something that I'd like my boyfriend to do and I'd express that to him

[Anonymous]

I would break up with him.