Is it bad that I don't want to outlive my parents?

[WhereIsMyLover]

I seriously do not want to outlive my parents. I hope I can peacefully pass away before or at the same time my parents do.

I am likely going to end up alone the rest of my life. I am going to be even more lonely once my parents are gone. I feel like am early death for me is my best option.

I may not find a woman without a romantic past. That is my criteria: I seek a woman without a romantic past.

If I don't find that, I will be alone. If I am alone, I rather be dead.

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[kyleelyn199723]

Your expectations are the reason why you will be alone forever. It’s bizarre to me that a guy would turn a girl away is perfect for him but has a romantic past. I think it’s generally selfish to not want to outlive your parents. Your parents do not deserve to bury their own child.

[kyleelyn199723]

Also at the age of 26, I assure you , you won’t find many or even any girls that haven’t had a romantic past. You need to get your head out of these childish thoughts.

[WhereIsMyLover]

I have my reasons why I want a woman without a romantic past. It is difficult to convey in a way others will understand, but it is a strict requirement. I don't want to endure a life alone without a significant other, a wife, and and family. I have always wanted that my entire life, and it appears it will not happen. I just hope I die before or around the same time my parents do. If not, I will find a way to die shortly afterwards then.

[kyleelyn199723]

What are your reasons out of curiosity? Why are you letting a women’s past dictate the status of a possible marriage that you are throwing away. That sounds so off to me

[WhereIsMyLover]

I don't want to give my heart to a woman that has already given hers to someone else before me. She would be my first love and I am not hers. Second, there is the hypothetical situation that exists to where she can reunite with someone from her youth and it be a sweeter, more desirable outcome even though it doesn't happen.

[kyleelyn199723]

That sounds like an insecurity within you that will keep you lonely forever. Also your relationships will not go good if you can’t figure out your own insecurities. You sound like you would rather be toxic in relationships and very controlling.

[WhereIsMyLover]

I don't want to be controlling. I am a loving and faithful person. I don't want to be in a relationship with a woman where someone from her youth has an upper hand and where she can have a sweeter, more desirable outcome with that person. She can choose to stay with me, but that doesn't matter. It is the fact that it is potentially better, more emotion invoking, and a sweeter love story if she were to be with someone from her youth.

[kyleelyn199723]

That sounds like a weakness on your end. That won’t benefit you. A girl with no experience in love may more so want to experience more than just you and leave you. I’ve done that before to my first official boyfriend as shitty as that is. I wanted to experience more. Your idea that a girl is deemed unfaithful because she has past lovers is bizarre

[WhereIsMyLover]

I am not saying she is unfaithful. Again, she may be with me and think I am the best, but she may not be aware that another outcome is potentially better, especially with someone from her youth where they can experience the love they never had.

[kyleelyn199723]

A girl can think another outcome is better even if she hasn’t experienced love. I am telling you I have done that before. A better looking guy came my way when my ex boyfriend was neglecting our relationship and bounced. He was my first official boyfriend.

[FlySwimmer]

WHY DONT MEN WANT WOMEN WITHOUT ROMANTIC PASTS.. DOES NOT COMPUTE.. DOES NOT COMPUTE.. DOES NOT COMPUTE.. PAST ROMANCES LITERALLY JUST MEAN EXPERIENCE, NOTHING MORE..