Is it possible to be loved by a man that has a girlfriend?

[Peculiar2021]

I need yalls opinion on this. There is a man ( a Leo by the way which are loyal to a fault) that says that he has fallen for me, BUT... he is ( his words) "in a relationship with a women and her children look to me. They are attached to me, and I them (they are not his biological children) . Also she pays my bills and spoils me. She shouldn't do this and it bothers me, I am a grown ass man".
I seem to have fallen for this man and he has been nothing but honest with me, at least I think and feel he is. He is slepping with me and her, although he says it is only when he absoultley has too! I didn't know this part in the beginning otherwise I would not have, BUT... yes , I am still engaging in that act.
My question to y'all is, do you think it would be worth it for me to wait for him to work it out to where he can be with me without hurting anyone (which could take a grip). I feel that it would be, however I am also emotionally compromised and I need some logical opinions, NOT emotional.

[ilikefrogsalot]

You genuinely think he's been honest to you? Do you really think a cheater is being honest to you, and most importantly, do you actually think he'll be honest and loyal to you if he leaves his partner? He'll treat you exactly like his current girlfriend and you're stupid enough to fall into his trap. He will lie to you and cheat on you, no doubt about it. If he isn't willing to be faithful to a woman who treats him like a king, why would he faithful to you? You deserve whatever you get for sleeping with a man in a relationship. You're both beyond trashy and because of that, you're perfect for each other.

[Anonymous]

No.

1) He’s got a girlfriend, and he’s talking to you behind her back about falling for youwhether or not he’s done anything with you yet. He’s far from being “loyal to a fault”.

2) He’s highly manipulative. He’s playing the good guy routine, pretending that he cares about his girlfriend and the kids. He told you this stuff because he wants to bang you on the side without you asking him to leave.

3) He’s a user. She’s paying his bills and spoiling him. That’s why he stays.

4) He’s a loser. Those aren’t his kids, she pays for him. It’s not like he’s a stay at home Dad for his own kids, he’s a guy who went for a single mother who’d pay his way.

You really need to pick them better. This is a ridiculous question, especially from a 44 year old woman.

[slatyb]

Time and tide wait for no man, and neither should you. Tell him to call you when he's single. In the meantime you should date other people.

[Anonymous]

Leos aren't loyal LOL
I have many Leo friends and most in relationships. They always check other people put
But 2021 Leo astrology says Leos in relationships will catch feelings for others

[Jesus_is_the_guey]

A. Zodiacs don’t mean shit imma Leo and have cheated on almost of not every girl I’ve dated longer than a month besides my current wife
B. He’s an ass and not even a good manipulator not sure how you fell for his scheme

[FilmGuy93]

Nope, it’s not possible. At most, you will only ever be a bandage for the things that his main partner lacks

[spartan55]

You are an absolute fool if you think he will ever leave her...

[Inexpensivefurniture]

If he cheats WITH you, eventually he will cheat ON you

[Danny_dan92]

Why is this even a fucken question? Find a single person you piece of dog shit

[Wiredone]

It doesn't sound like he plans on leaving her because of the kids. I think you would be waiting forever. You should just move on.

[Zygum]

As he is honest with you and he is doing lot for you, you both love each other then no reason to break from him

[Waldoe]

he knows your number, he can contact you when he is available for a real relationship.

[Luckycharms12]

Hey wants to fuck you then go cos his bored in his his relationship

[Iron_Man]

No ma’am you’re just a side chick

[Wise4myage]

No, but its possible to be fooled.

[princeofromance]

Yes, But it will never be true love.

[Jamie05rhs]

No. It's not.