Is it a serious relationship if you go to Cabo with your boyfriend for your bday? Or just two people having fun?

[Anonymous]

[hahahmm]

There's relationships where people live together for many years and do most things together but it's not really serious because one person doesn't believe it is. So beware. It's like asking if a swimming pool has any salt in it. You can't know just by a glance. You have to do tests or pay close attention. I wouldn't depend on guessing either. A serious relationship should have set agreed to boundaries. Not hopes/feelings alone.

[Leavesbound]

If he saved up a long time and worked a lot of overtime to pay for the trip then it's serious. if he's wealthy and won't even notice the slight dip in my bank account when he pays for it then it's probably just two people having fun.

[D_Bone_Steak]

A true answer to this would require a shit ton of context.

[Pterodon]

How would we know?