Do You Believe In Love?

[HighHeelssss]

I lost my belief to love. What do you think about love? Loyalty or the other stuff? I mean everybody cheats and when somebody get bored, looks the other guys/ladies. Or maybe somebody doesn't like having sex with lover cause of physical appearance. What should we do for real relationship?

[Crazybeeguy]

Here's a good question, there are all kinds of love.

You are 21 so you have not experienced things in a certain way. Not to say being so young you are incappable of love or know what it is. What I am saying is the lack of relationships in life you have less experience with people. You are going to experience bad relationships, you are going to experience unhealthy people, you are going to experience pain, the best part of it all is you will experience people that you care about and that genuinely care about you, but are not going to be your forever boyfriend or husband.
That is what you have to indentify, are good people but you don't need to be with them. Then once in awhile you will catch a glimpse of sweet bliss, that they are thinking of you as they cook breakfast, having a nice cup of tea. That when your day is going bad they are a text away to help you through your stress. They are your partner, as you devote yourself to them they are devoted to you. You both want to be around each other, there are no arguments over dumb stuff. That person is a partner to you in life, they are a reflection of how you treat them. There is someone out there for you, but dating apps filter people out... Sometimes they filter out too much.
If you go on a date thinking I am dating someone to see if I like spending my time with someone, not I want a boyfriend you will find someone. You can date to filter people out. If everything is right, maybe even love. Stay thirsty my friend!

[Lionman95]

Yes I do but through our game of choices and other problems we have made finding love complicated. Life has never been easy but I feel like that it´s even more complicated nowadays because we guys have become insecure about approaching women.
Online dating has good sights but has made worse all together because it takes the part of getting to each other in a range that is overwhelming for both.
We guys have become insecure because some of us don´t know should we approach women? If so, how to do that? If not what are other options? Isn´t it time for girls to approach there are signs and captions everywhere like: Girls can do it, too. Because of porn and casual dating there are also other obstacles.
I know what you mean but I think and hope love will find its way.

[Espresso-Grande]

I believe love exists. Just not the kind you read in fairytales and romance novels. That's far too unrealistic. No human can live up to that kind of expectation.

There's no guarantees in love. No one can guarantee or promise they'll never hurt you or leave you. People can change over time. So their feelings change. Just because someones love doesn't last forever or a lifetime, that doesn't mean what they felt at the time wasn't real love.

[Siren777]

Love isn't difficult, people complicate love. Real love doesn't have mind games, ghosting, anything that would stress you out. People who do these things don't know the true value of it. Won't do this to hurt you.

[ThisAndThat]

I have to believe in love because if there wasn't love then I wouldn't be capable of loving myself. As far as the myth that men only want sex that's a load of bull crap. I had true attraction and feelings for the opposite sex years before I even knew about sex and I was attracted. Yes there is some element of it or she'd be just another dude. But the myth that males only attract for sex is exactly that a myth.

[HighHeelssss]

you are right.

[exitseven]

I do believe in love but I also know it is not a cure all for everything. Relationships are hard by their very definition. They take a lot of work to sustain and they don't always survive certain issues.
At the end of the day you get out of it what you put into it. I think John Lennon said something like that.

[RACSKC0B]

Nope.
Though, I admit, it does happen. Unfortunately, it rarely ever lasts very long.
For me, I'm lucky if I make it to being in like with a girl, before they start acting as if they hate me.
But, then I'm not that fond of me either, so I don't blame them entirely.

[Pogi-Paddy-2]

It sounds to me that you have been hurt in the past. I want to say that in time you will experience love once you get past your pain of being hurt. Good luck my friend.🌺

[HighHeelssss]

Thanks... what a nice answer... yes i've been hurt

[Anonymous]

I believe in it but the way the world is today, it just constant trials and tests. In a perfect world, we’d be able to love easily but in this world given the number of daily stressors we face, it makes it very hard.

[Jamie05rhs]

I believe in love. It doesn't come easily, though. And it requires effort by two parties. Both people have to want each other for a relationship to work out.

[CuriousMufuxka]

It's a nice hope for imagination. Otherwise a great song.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/cfYhG4Rd6jI

[Leavesbound]

You are way to young to be so jaded.

[HighHeelssss]

I know but that's not depend on age.

[Leavesbound]

That is true.

[Anonymous]

No not everybody cheats miss delusional some people actually stay faithful and no some people don't get bored maybe you do but a lot of people don't. do everyone a favor and stay single before you screw some poor bastard over with your cheating ways

[Gabblez]

Couldn't of said it any better 👍

[Dchrls78104]

What you are describing is exactly the problem. If you cheat or objectify someone, you are hurting people. Love shouldn't hurt.

[CallmeTheKnight]

Yes. It can make you grow as a person or make you stupid.

[Chthou95]

The love i have for my dog, siblings & parents i believe in. But romantic love i don't believe in at all

[Bean2thousand]

The only person you can ever truly be intimate with is your cat.

[Avicenna]

Sure, it exists and is important

[Anonymous]

No, it's really just biology. When you get older, it becomes the need for companionship...

[es20490446e]

Yes, but you should let it happen by itself.

[hhadeshatesme]

Real romantic love is rare, but yes

[Monfrere]

Sometimes yes sometimes no

[Furuok]

It's going to happen eventually.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Yes, definitely.

[Anonymous]

Humans werent meant to be monogamous.

[Shihab91]

Sure i do