Girls, What is a stronger turn off for you, a person's race or their larger weight (being fat)? Read description?

[dfgdfgfdhh]

I honestly can't tell if larger weight (being fat) is a bigger turn off or if it someone's race that is a bigger turn off. i am confused because i am not girl. I am also trying to remain slim, but not sure if its worth it to stay slim because girls dont like certain races based on my research and i belong to that race. I prefer not to say my race so people dont make fun of my race

what race they belong to is a bigger turn off

Larger weight (being fat) is a bigger turn off

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[so_over_this]

I've been attracted to men from different races and men who were slim and also more on the plus , but for me I was attracted more in terms of personality and not appearance , after dating because I like their personality I really liked their appearance which has now influenced my taste in men over the years. So overall it really depends on the person , but in this case I would say weight because at first impression it can seem that you're a type of person who does not take care of yourself and women already feel like they have do so much the last thing they want is to tell a man to take care of health and body weight etc. This is just my personal opinion not out here to hate or anything

[dfgdfgfdhh]

sis i am slim, its the race part which is making me wonder.

[dfgdfgfdhh]

hold on by "you" do you mean me, or were you generalising?

[so_over_this]

Dude honestly it's just the girl's preference

[Anonymous]

I’m only attracted to Caucasian men with similar facial features as my own. That’s where my attraction starts. Im sure girls of the same race as your own would find you most attractive.

If the guy is not trying to improve his health, I won’t give him a chance.

[Opinion Owner]

I’m not saying African Americans or Hispanics or what have you, are not attractive. I find some to be extremely beautiful and attractive but not sexually attractive

[dfgdfgfdhh]

I wish what you are saying is true, but i have a sister who doesn't want to get married within her own race and wants to marry Caucasian only, it only almost makes me think other girls think the same way and my mum calls my dad ugly

[Opinion Owner]

I’m not saying all women, but the majority. How old was she when she had her first crush and what race was he?

[dfgdfgfdhh]

Or mum hints it sometimes, can't remember her saying it directly, but it saddens me

[Opinion Owner]

Can even be a celebrity

[dfgdfgfdhh]

both same race, mum and dad

[Opinion Owner]

Like I’m attracted to guys with square/oval shaped faces and wide foreheads and broad chin

[Opinion Owner]

Like a masculine version of my face shape

[Opinion Owner]

Big Irish eyes

[Opinion Owner]

I don't know most guys I liked were more german and Irish than anything

[dfgdfgfdhh]

if i am honest they look quite different but they are from same country, but then there is sister who also doesn't want to marry her own race, so it kinda makes me confused about female attraction

[Opinion Owner]

I don't know why it saddens you. can't help what you’re attracted to, but you didn’t tell me what race her first crush or love was

[Opinion Owner]

Like my first ever mad crush looks similar to all my other crushes. I think it starts there

[Opinion Owner]

I subconsciously compare everyone to that peraon

[dfgdfgfdhh]

Honestly my parents as a kid were in a country where there are less foreigners so her crush was the same race as her as a kid

[dfgdfgfdhh]

Anyways, overall i really hope you are right, sry if i kinda started being someone who is trying to to be negative, but what i can say is ty for your opinion and at least you tried to cheer me up

[Opinion Owner]

I wasn’t trying to cheer you up. I’m only saying what I've experienced and observed from everyone I’ve met

[Opinion Owner]

But I’m glad you found some comfort to my insight lol.. I do love Asian American mixed guys though..

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Race doesn't matter as we're all the human race...
Weight becomes a factor if it keeps them from fully functioning or being healthy

[Anonymous]

If you're heavy, it doesn't matter what your race is. You will always be disadvantaged. But yes there're exceptions when personality matters more and girls date heavy guys.
But being heavy is something you can change. You are gonna have the race problem always. It's better to look this up on quora
I remember something i read from quora where a girl made it clear. She said between a 5/10 white guy and 5/10 Asian guy, white guy is preferred.
Between 5/10 white guy and 9/10 TALL Asian guy, Asian guy is preferred.
That is if you have the manly characteristics that women as a general finds attractive, race can be ignored.

[PaynefulPleasures]

Neither I don't give a damn as long as you're a good person with good intentions. You can lose weight but you can't change ugly,& I'm not an ugly person. I like all walks of life , cause life is a journey plain & simple ✌️😎

[PeacefulRainDrop]

None race or size dont matter to me unless its unhealthy.

[dfgdfgfdhh]

What do you mean by unhealthy? like unhealthy being very very overweight or?

[PeacefulRainDrop]

If someone is unhealthy meaning under or over weight.. or unsanitary due to their race.

[dfgdfgfdhh]

oh ty, makes sense

[PeacefulRainDrop]

Those things dont matter as much as long as they are healthy and good quality inside is what matters most.. outside changes.. its just an outter shel the real person is the person inside

[Tiptoetamm]

I don't mind a man a few pounds over weight, race doesn't bother me either, I just want a man who will treat me right

[loves2learn]

Weight would be a bigger factor. All races have attractive men.

[Anonymous]

I don't want a lazy overweight man who doesn't take care of himself. Race has nothing to do with health. I've been attracted to men from many different races. A hot guy is a hot guy is what I say. 😂

[Azura_88]

Both but if you're decent looking then your race doesn't matter.

[emilym12345]

There are attractive people from all races. I’m not a racist person.

[karaspara]

Weight race is irrelevant