What did your past relationship teach you?

Question

Andres77 · Accepted Answer

Appeasement is seen as weakness and they might try to take advantage of patience and kindness.
Lack of respect is a HUGE red flag.
How they treat a server in a restaurant is how they'll treat you when they're not in a good mood.
Being mean to anyone means they'll be mean to you too.

AndrewMG · Accepted Answer

That there's a difference between having a close female friend and having a relationship with that person... breaking up meant we lost not only the relationship but the friendship... and that's what hurt most with hindsight I would of sacrificed the relationship and kept the friendship.

Agape93 · Accepted Answer

Don’t inherently trust decency of people, value yourself and have firm boundaries.

abc3643 · Answer

If even one of these is true, dump and move on ASAP:
1. She idolizes Scarlett O'Hara of Gone With The Wind.
2. She likes horses.
3. She eats the desert before the dinner.
4. She has more than 2 credit cards and either is maxed out.
5. She is over 25, with a job, and has nothing in savings or investments.
6. She is over 25 and had intercourse with more than 10 men.

loveslongnails · Answer

A girl who loves sex can always develop other interests, but a girl who doesn't love sex will never develop an interest in that ! So, since I love sex, I learned only to date girls who do as well !!

NathanDavis · Answer

more than learning it... it confirmed it for me, there's a lot much more than a person can be and bring, once you both commit to each other, when it is the two really into it, unexpectedly great stuff can happen.

Floppy2112 · Answer

Oh man, I can write an encyclopedia. Main lesson, being 'nice' makes you a doormat. And no matter how much you give, it's never enough, up to and including death. And on and on and on and on.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

First thing to do is find out if she's more into money than into me! If it's money, KICK HER ASS THE FUCK OUT, NOW!!! I have NO TIME for gold diggers and plastic chicks!!!

britishbby · Answer

Don't take what u have for granted, and history makes a man and means more to me than i thought

msc545 · Answer

It taught me that if I can diagnose a personality disorder in the first date or two that is a very good sign that I should stay away from that person going forward

cth96190 · Answer

Never trust a woman. Do not commit fully, because she will break the man’s heart, sometimes just because she can.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Never allow them to wear something of yours that is sentimental cause in my case she lost it and was never found

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

Past relationships taught me to move forward & keep dating until you meet your special someone.

Diversity_Hire · Answer

Without an emotional attachment we're all expendable.

MannMitAntworten · Answer

That I seem to attract extremely believable women, who are in reality … fickle.

2ndTryatThis · Answer

You can have different kinds of relationships.. once you figure out what one is.. what needs you serve for each-other, then you can gauge expectations.. (and fuck as much as possible)

exitseven · Answer

When somebody puts zero effort into a relationship it is not going to work.

DaveToo · Answer

No matter what she says, she couldn't be trusted with my heart.

ChiTown33 · Answer

Never put anymore energy into her than she's willing to put into you.

magiusX26 · Answer

that the vast majority of people really are not worth attempting to get to know on any level

grega239 · Answer

It showed me just how disposable and replaceable i am.

sp33d · Answer

Italian. Though, I haven't practiced for a while now.

jerdanro · Answer

Never let yourself fall in love with someone who has no intention of loving you back.

RickVienna · Answer

Its all about penis size. If you are small it becomes difficult

bigfinger4u · Answer

Don't trust liars and that they can be highly creative when covering up there trcks

Finchie40 · Answer

To never value someone that doesn’t value you

Mehzmeh · Answer

Never forget who I am.

Avicenna · Answer

You can’t fix someone

bannacookies · Answer

Never be with someone who has double standards.

Still-alive · Answer

i need more than just sex :P

FruitAndBlueEyes · Answer

Communicate a lot more.

EaterPeter · Answer

Can you please not post pics like this one?

es20490446e · Answer

To choose well.

OddBeMe · Answer

Always Plan B ahead.

JesseJayNeak · Answer

Don't rush go slow

What did your past relationship teach you?

Most Helpful Opinions

What Girls & Guys Said