Why do some women have little control over when their emotions get all riled up, they say something unnecessarily rude?

[Anonymous]

I'm the type of person that tries my best to earn someone's respect and be nice, polite. I always try to think before I say something so it's in a nice way of saying it.

I understand everyone is different. But this issue arises in majority of my life interacting with different women in all types of communication. In person, phone calls, texts, etc.

There are sweet women out there I've interacted with and had relationships with but this issue still arises.

[SunflowerCrown]

It's not a trait exclusive to women but it sounds like you have a "type" and that type of woman doesn't know how to control their emotions. It could stem from not being mature.

I think the next time you date, try to branch out. If the only women you know lack emotional control, you need to meet different women.

[Asker]

Yep that's why I said everyone is different and just wondering why some women do it. Yes some were immature, makes sense.

[Asker]

Thanks for the advice although asking a woman I date if she lacks emotional control I'd probably get slapped lol. I should move on if she shows any signs of it.

[SunflowerCrown]

Well definitely! Anyone would think that's rude. It's not so much asking a woman if she has control over her emotions, it's more just observing how she reacts to things while you're still friends or in the talking stage. When someone shows you who they are believe them. Of course, that could also go both ways. What are YOU doing that causes this behavior?

[Asker]

Oops I didn't mention that in the details. This behavior I speak of is out of nowhere. There's no arguing or anything bad going on. When she's emotionally on edge being dramatic and rude. In that mode I mean, that's the best I can describe it.

[SunflowerCrown]

I feel like everyone catches an attitude from time to time. Have you ever tried to ask these women why they were so upset?

[Asker]

Few blamed being stressed or on edge from their period, or both when I confronted them about it either later or right after. Or she'd feel bad and tell me another day those reasons. I just don't understand why be rude to me for no reason.

[Asker]

Well they said reasons but why rude to me when I did nothing, I don't understand

[Asker]

Oh and one girl explained to me it was the buildup to her period that made her on edge

[SunflowerCrown]

Yeah, being on your period definitely effects our emotions, some more than others.

[TommyMountainFigure]

It's just a person's nature, but i assure you it isn't exclusive to women. Blokes can be like that too.

[Asker]

Yep that's why I said everyone is different. I'm just wondering why some women do it.

[TommyMountainFigure]

Maybe their mouths are quicker than their brains. I really don't know why though exactly.

[Avicenna]

That's mot unique to women. A number of people do that.

[Asker]

Yes that's why I said everyone is different. Was wondering why some women do this

[KrakenAttackin]

Because women have very few consequences for their actions.

[Iron_Man]

It’s amazing how some of them have bad tempers