Are you afraid of being lonely in life?

Question

For the longest time I felt afraid to try to settle down and be with someone, finally I met a guy and we actually got married. It was the happiest day of my life, I used to be lonely myself, but now I have him by my side too.

I was kind of wondering if any of you feel lonely or afraid of meeting someone like how I used to?

Aguysopinion4799 · Accepted Answer

Hmm... Sometimes?

Sometimes I don't mind the idea of being alone because I am so used to being single, I have never had a relationship so I guess at times I notice how I came this far without a relationship supporting me and so I assume that I would be better off without one sometimes.

But other times I feel depressed at the idea of knowing there will be another day where I am without someone special in my life to be in a relationship with and how I wish I had one.

My current mood is just that I don't really care about being with a relationship partner at the moment because I know that there would be no benefit for either of us to establish a relationship in this kind of scenario and with everything going on in my life, so adding the dangers of the world and my newfound plan to a busier life, I there is no way we could make a relationship work. That's how I see it and most of the time that opinion of mine doesn't change into the depressed one unless I watch too many romance things and then I want to do the things in the romance genres or the slice of life, which I then fix by watching some horror because it very quickly puts new memories into my head that are not at all linked with love and therefore stop me thinking about it as much :)

JoeyRock · Accepted Answer

Yes I do sometimes feel lonely. but I'm really never alone. I have wonderful people in my life and still try to meet new people every now and then even if it scares me.

I'm not one to be in a relationship and that's fine by me! You are never "by yourself" if you can send a message to someone you know nad they reply back or want to hang out!

I-C3_ME · Answer

Don't worry, everyone feels lonely at times it's a part of life.

Me personally, i kinda fear it. Not to be a little lonely but i used to feel incredibly alone (i didn't have many people that i could trust and i always locked myself in my room because of it) but now I'm grown up and it'd like this, i want to be around people but only people that actually want me around. I won't take it personal, it's fine. The only thing that i ask is to be polite about it and not stab me in the back.

But a couple years ago i wanted to move to Australia but i feared that I'd feel that lonely again so i decided against it.

I still get lonely at times and I've got a good couple of friends and try to go out more, i can honestly live with that but I'm never going back. It's just not fun yk XD.

Have a wonderful day!

harmseygracelu · Answer

Nope because I have a big family that will always be there no matter what, even extended family and my mums best friend (she's like my auntie), plus 6 dogs and a cat. I'm home alone tonight and my big sister is making me call her every hour so she knows I'm okay.

I'm not scared that I won't get married or anything because I know I will.

Anonymous · Answer

I am not really afraid of being lonely. Although there have been times in my life where I have been lonely. There were times during job training during or after college where in a was in a living situation where I didn't know that many people, or other times like that where I moved to a new area.

red_knight · Answer

Wow.. I'll risk looking stupid and saying it here since I can't in real life.

I'm fucking horrified To be alone, wakingbup n going to bed alone, I'm so down thinking of how my relationships never work.

Lost my job coz of covid and it's not improving since. I can't afford to get in a relationship right now... I dont want to embarrass myself..

annaphoo · Answer

Omggg that's what I'm feeling till now since the age when I started to realize what relationship is. I'm so afraid of letting someone into my life as I'm afraid of being apart later. I can't commit my time and my life to someone else. I prefer being single and I'm more than happy with my friends and family. I'm still afraid to be in a relationship with someone.

Interstate · Answer

The good Lord told me some time ago, that I am meant to lead a single life. I am happiest when I am single; No drama.

Gomezaddam51 · Answer

I did when I was a teen and then into my early 20's. In fact I made the mistake of getting married so as not to be alone. I found out, you cannot learn to love someone even if they love you.

exitseven · Answer

As I get older, more and , more people that I have known are no longer alive. It becomes an issue because when you are older it is harder to make friends.

Mia-Wallace · Answer

Yeah. Absolutely. I'm thankful for my husband, family, and friends.

Starwitch23 · Answer

I am afraid of giving my time and love to the wrong person. I have faced loneliness. It's not that bad. But, being in the wrong relationship is worse.

Bang5luts · Answer

I wouldn't say I've ever been afraid of being lonely in life, just that I wanted someone to share life with, laugh, love, hilarious moments that no one else would get if they weren't there. 😔

Ryfyle · Answer

Not Fear, but disgust that I have destroyed my own Humanity, and that I've pushed so many away. I have some major Dysfunction, but that's how I have to survive.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Yes, I am the same way, and ladies always like my eyes but I fear rejection

Iron_Man · Answer

Are you that bisexual girl that was dating the bisexual guy or are you different accounts but the same Kayla name?

Anonymous · Answer

Can't say I'm afraid of being lonely in life since I've been lonely predominantly my whole life already. 🤷‍♀️ At this point it feels like another day.

FatherJack · Answer

Not in the slightest , when it comes to people , less is more.

ChiTown33 · Answer

No. I've been single my entire life and I'm happier now than I've ever been.

friendzoned4life · Answer

Nope I been lonely for a pretty long time. U get used to it only thing I am afraid of is getting hurt again

josh1138 · Answer

I fear I will never meet anyone as I don't have any women in my life and don't know how to change that. I've tried dating apps to no success

TallAnon · Answer

No, I used to be, but I've been alone for quite a while now, so it became the norm. Can't be afraid of what's normal.

na2398 · Answer

Yes, because my greatest fear is not being loved the way I do.

Uptowngirl88 · Answer

Not really I enjoy my peace but I'd eventually like a boyfriend/hubby

Wiredone · Answer

I have lost so many family members that that it doesn't matter to me.

Noodle_fan · Answer

Not anymore , well i just getting used to it after these years.

Anonymous · Answer

No I'm expecting it in a 20-odd years and that will make my last decade a miserable but alas required experience

Hotboy_booblover · Answer

Yes I think everyone has this fear st some point in life

SlightlyEccentric · Answer

I am not afraid to walk this world alone

JosyJosy · Answer

I think so, no family or friends

Dchrls78104 · Answer

No. Why should I be? I'm already there.

AlongCameCindy · Answer

Yes, but i already am lonely.

Sketti2021 · Answer

Used to be but not now

Adam_West · Answer

fuck no  I WANT to be lonely in life

Deku2009 · Answer

Yeah I am afraid of living a lonely life. 😭

Guanfei · Answer

Yeah. And I am. And it won't get better

sensible27 · Answer

Yesh

devmann · Answer

First i am afraid of it but now i am alone😥.

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah I always resented being the Hunter

Gwenhwyfar · Answer

I’ve felt that way

abhi75757 · Answer

I love living alone

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