What do I do I like two guys?

[Anonymous]

I love my boyfriend very much i love him with all my heart and i missed a guy we broke up cause he needed to move away but we reconnected and he make me feel a way I haven't felt since him but i love my current boyfriend i dont know what to do

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I talked to a friend and she said that my boyfriend is text book manipulation when i told him id leave or everytime he thought I'd leave he would threaten self harm and I never realized it until today so I'll just take a break no relation and clear my head. Thanks for all the advices.

[SueShe]

In life you will be confronted with this of situation more often than you want it but you have to make a choice, whether you like it or not.

The day you broke up with the other guy because he had to move away is the day you made your choice to continue without him. That is why you found a substitute that you claim you love. It is present love against past love and reason dictates that you chose the present love since you love him with all your heart.

It is not fair from the past love to attempt to take you away from the present love, despite the fact that you think you owe him something. Let the past rest and concentrate on the present. You need to make a clear cut and sever all the ties from the past.

[Asker]

Thank you

[SueShe]

Hope you chose wisely and what your heart and gut feelings tell you to. Good luck :-)

[designer1]

Go with whichever one you’d dread giving up more. Play out the scenarios and gauge which one makes you feel worse. If you truly can’t figure it out, move on from them both. Reason: you are not emotionally available to either because you can not love only one of them. It would not be fair to anyone involved if you chose to be with one of them whilst still having feelings for the other.

[Asker]

thank you i think ill take time to think and try to decide one side my boyfriend is extraordinary but he doesn't make me feel like im the only one in the world compare to my ex who make me feel like there's only us two in the word he make me feel so beautiful and the luckiest. both were there through rough patches both love me so much but i know i have to choose

[williamHD]

Chose the one your heart says. If your heart says you think about not the boyfriend and you want to spend time simple. Just don’t make them feel like a rebound or ifs the other way around to be honest

[Asker]

Thank you it's really helpfull

[Static_In_The_Attic]

If you love your current boyfriend with all your heart keep him & as for the guy that moved away he left you once & most likely he will leave you again.

[Asker]

i decided to end things with him cause i was going through somthing and as much it hurted and i dont know how many time i just clicked on his contact and almost sent him "i miss you" but i thought he's better off without me probably forgot me but he did the same thing never forgot me and he make time for me more than my actual boyfriend

[TommyMountainFigure]

My advice is simple. Pick one or lose them both.

[Asker]

and how am i suppose to break someones heart when he helped me more than anyone else and i did the same for him

[TommyMountainFigure]

Like i said, if you don't choose one you will break both their hearts, and ultimately lose their respect and them.

[Asker]

that's true thank you

[TommyMountainFigure]

You're welcome.

[lycanthrope3]

Stay with boyfriend, the other guy is not there

[xiphantom]

leave them both