Guys would you date/marry a girl who’s 4 years older than you?

[Anonymous]

[Aysen]

I definitely would if I believed I could be happy with them for a lifetime!

There's a lot of similarities that can be shared within a 4 year age gap, regardless of whether you're older or younger than the other person! There's even couples that get along that have a 10+ year gap like my sister does and it can certainly work out! I'd usually say the closer to age you are with the other person, the more likely you can relate with popular culture, experiences throughout childhood and important moments in history that happened during your lifetime but that's subjective though. Don't let age make you afraid of who you date! If the two of you get along and are very happy together, that's what matters the most 😊

[Asker]

Thank you. If I was 34 and the guy 30 would have been better because he is mature enough I guess. But he is 26 and I just turned 30 ! He doesn’t act childish but Maybe code 3 hit me lol meaning I see 20s as kids now.. and yes the age is bothering me not to initiate talking with him… I have never in my life thought to date a guy that age. It feels creepy..

[Aysen]

I don't think there's that big of a difference between 20s and 30s, besides maturity to an extent like you said but I can understand why this bothers you. Don't let that 30s wall get in the way of what can be a wonderful relationship! Try not to let age determine who you can talk to. Let the behavior and attitude of your crush be the determining factor here. You have nothing to lose if you feel he's the right guy for you 😊

[ThatNoUVAtYourEyes]

Possible but not likely. Women refuse to give birth to children beyond 45

[kyleelyn199723]

I knew a couple where the guy was 10 years younger than his wife. Yeah it works. They have been happily married for 40 years

[Anonymous]

No... it’s not impossible but it would be the exception

[IncognitoBandito]

Sure if she's pleasant and hot

[Pterodon]

I have dated as much as 15 years older

[Ailaw22]

I will consider dating for sure

[Luckycharms12]

I have in the past