Would it be a dealbreaker for you, if your boyfriend/girlfriend, or husband or wife referred to someone other than you as hot?

[Extraterrestrial1999]

No, it's not a dealbreaker for me

It kind of is

Yes, It's a total dealbreaker

Other

[snowgirl123]

oh yes FUR SURE. unless I asked him if he thought another girl as pretty. still I would prefer a more discrete answer.

I think we must try to place ourselves in other people's shoes, feelings and heart, really. I mean, how would I feel if I was watching a movie with my loved one, and he just said, " oh that actress is really hot." ? whoever she would, famous or not, it's horrible to hear such thing.

we must respect the people we're with, and make them feel like the most beautiful person in the world, at least to us, I suppose. to make them feel as if there's nothing to be changed in them physically.

[Anonymous]

Objectively, there are so many people out there who are hot. Even if I am hot, I can’t be the only one who is hot. And especially after 10-20 years of marriage I doubt I will be hot anymore.
i don’t feel that this is a deal breaker if he does say someone is hot. But it will be a deal breaker if he goes out of his way to get the attention of the person who is hot, especially if it ended up in an affair.

[snackthatsmilesback]

Did other people stop being hot when she married me? It shouldn't be something she's looking for but why not say what you think if it does come up? Better than lying.

[qwert1234]

No.
I mean if my girlfriend/wife tells me that Henry Cavill or Jason Momoa or Ryan Reynolds is hotter than me, I will 100% agree with her. lol

[DizzyDesii]

Its disrespectful. Talk about that crap with your boys. I dont wanna hear you saying to my face that you're attracted to another girl. Its obvious but should just be an unspoken thing. Now i admit, I've had a slipup and called Brad Pitt hot before in front of an S. O. They reacted in a pissed way lmao. So apparently i need to save my hottie celeb talk for when im around my girls 😂

[Anonymous]

You’re still allowed to notice when someone’s attractive. I guess it depends on the narrative of how they said it to begin with. Now If I was insecure it would bother me. If they told me they were hotter than me they should know better than to say that to a woman lol

[jasco]

Women are attractive to me just like men are attractive to her. As long as we don't move on our thoughts than that's fine

[Anonymous]

It wouldn't be, but I'd hint I didn't want to hear that unprompted

[SnakeBoop]

glad their eyes fucking work.

[Hangry06]

No. I will be saying more than that