I want an alpha boyfriend where would I find him?
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Xper 7 Age: 45+1 yThere's some out there. Just have to be patient
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Thanks
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No problem 😊
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- 5.8K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Master Age: 22+1 y
At the Alpha Store, lol.
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Does that really exist
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No lol. Sorry I was just joking. But athletes are often Alpha males.
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Thank you, hopefully I meet one
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Good luck to you!
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"Does that really exist"
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Thank you.
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Lol no problem
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- 798 opinions shared on Relationships topic. Yoda Age: 37+1 y
Date an airplane pilot. Us pilots have lots of confidence, charm and charisma.
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Where do I find one and how do I find one
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@jaybee281 I don't understand
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Ohhh I was talking to @mobiusforniner - Hopefully he'll understand - You know - the movie catch me if you can - you should watch it
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@jaybee281 lol Oh I see okay thank you for your answer
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Go to a local airport that rents aircraft- Cessna's and Pipers. Ask for a discovery flight and to meet the instructors. Get involved. Speak the language. Some instructors are young single guys wanting to build time to get into the airlines. Pilots usually come from well off backgrounds, too. We;re usually good looking, especially when sporting the ray bans. I've NEVER had a girl say no to a date in an airplane. Sometimes we're arrogant and cocky, but that's given- because, after all, we have a legitimate license to look down on people
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@jaybee281 yes, I'm familiar with the movie. And he was a fake. Imagine what being a real aviator is like. For those guys out there complaining about not finding any girls... pay attention here. Aviators get girls. My hard part was picking among the bunch lol I still fly, by the way.
- Guru Age: 37+1 y
They are all over, but all of them are jerks and will cheat on you, because only jerks have teir based social status opinions of society.
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But can you tell me where I can meet one
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Literally anywhere where intelligence is not a requirement, I don't know why you would want to though.
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Because I want to be fucked good and you didn't answer my question can you please tell me where I can like which areas
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Lol nah I'm good, I'm not helping you find casual sex.
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Also typically guys with larger dicks don't feel the need to act like that. So I find your reasoning rather comical.
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I didn't ask you to help me find sex I want a boyfriend not just sex
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Why are you cock blocking me
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All you will get from an alpha is casual sex, maybe single mom status or an std as well.
Thats why I'm not helping. - Asker+1 y
*hugs you* thank you so much you're so kind honestly and I love how you're actually helping and not judging even though you kind of are it's okay thank you
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It's not judging, it's correcting and informing, being wrong about something isn't a character flaw.
Being a jerk is a character flaw, and helping you find a jerk would make me a jerk. - Asker+1 y
😍😍😍 thank you I feel a little better now
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You're welcome.
If you want actual help finding a decent guy, mention your interests/hobbies, people who share the same interests/hobbies are far less likely to divorce.
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You're always so helpful God bless you 🌻
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Always? I take it I've answered your questions before. Either way thanks.
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Yes you have ❤️
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Well now I'm curious, dm me (I won't tell anyone who you are on any of your anon posts).
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You won't be mad once you see who I am
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No idea why I'd be mad, it's not like anyone on here has wronged me, at least as far as I know anyway. heated disagreements sure, but I'm pretty sure blocked all those people who were on the extreme end of that.
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Okay I'm going to message you now
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Dude this website is full of guys like you. Guys who complain about the "alphas" getting girls and you "nice" guys getting leftovers. No, you're not the nice guy. you're a guy lacking confidence in yourself, who kindly thinks of himself as nice while labeling the more "fortunate" ones as assholes. Have a look in the mirror buddy.
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@mobiusforniner lol I don't lack confidence to talk to women, if I did I wouldn't be picky about who I date, nor would I be pointing out solutions to problems for them with no benefit to me if I weren't nice.
@Asker, see? they are assholes who treat others like lesser beings. Told ya. - +1 y
@mobiusforniner I also don't lack confidence in myself for much of anything else tbh, I'm the type to see failure as temporary, if I want it bad enough, and practice long enough, or think hard enough, I'll achieve it. (provided the laws of physics allow for it).
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Dude I only say this cuz i was a so called nice guy too. Lost my first girlfriend this way and couldn't figure out why. In reality i wasn't being nice. I was insecure about myself and conveniently blamed others. That made me the loser. Failure is a necessity. I never said alphas dont fail. A man can fail many times but he isn't a failure until he blames someone else.
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@mobiusforniner Yeah I don't have that problem and never did, I'm nice because of empathy, I genuinly like seeing people happy, because I'm not an asshole 🤷🏻
A lack of confidence or sociopathic tendancies are not the root of me failing to get a keeper thus far. Sorry to hear they were yours, but I don't have those problems.
My problem is the needle in a heystack problem. I've yet to find a girl I want to be with, because they, like me, do not show themselves much.
They are busy drawing, composing music, building things, playing video games, watching anime, etc. Nerdy artist atheist gamers are not very social, but thats what I want.
My only shot with them is online matchmaking in games or dating/social sites, or once a year comicons, maybe an arcade, zoo, or natural history museum if I'm lucky.
I want a girl who's just like me. I have no issues getting women to like me, In fact they usually like me way too quickly, it's just that I have a hard time finding one to feel that way back. There is always some difference that makes it a non starter, or there is an ocean between us, or she's taken, or wants kids etc.
Look into jobs where alpha males dominate, like for example, the military. Find a nearby army post or marine base (the other branches are less alpha.) Go to the bars near there and keep your eye open for the guys with short hair :)
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No thank you
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But thank you
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Well, there are some other alpha jobs too, policemen, coaches, etc. high powered executives, you pick your type. In most jobs though, it's a crap shoot. You were asking where to look, well, think about which type you're into and where they work. Find the local hangout (bar, or whatever) near that and that's where they'll be.
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Wow Thanks a lot 😊😊😊
- 3.3K opinions shared on Relationships topic. u Master Age: 34 , mho 33%+1 y
start looking for bags... 99% chance they're inside...
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Alright I get it damn
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yep... anyone calling himself an Alpha male, or referring to others as Alpha Males...
99% chance they're absolute douchebags
why would you want that anyway? - Asker+1 y
I don't know I just thought alpha meant cool and I don't know
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Alpha is the guy who can walk into a room and all the other guys follow him. Not because he's a douche, but because he commands respect and has confidence. True, he doesn't tell people he's the alpha. He knows it.
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@mobiusforniner <<< see what I mean Asker? this is the kind of BS, only a douchebag could come up with
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But it feels so right lol
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maybe you think it "feels so right"
but is not real, you never see this in real life... that's why you won't find it
this kind of ideas only happen in the head of inadequate males that are still childish... and keep telling each other "yeah we call all be alpha males as long as we act like douchebags, all the girls will fall for us right away"
bullshit... - Asker+1 y
Okay I understand I get it *sighs* it was only a little joke I wanted to make *sighs*
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Confidence makes me a douchebag... wow. Nice comeback omega. But hey man, to each their own. Cheers
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@mobiusforniner ignorance, inadequacy, insecurity... delusion
call it either, is all pretty much the same either way, a bunch of BS
- Explorer Age: 23+1 y
This shit doesn't exist, you have want someone to mistreat you with confidence
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No and stop judging I want an alpha boyfriend not an asshole
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It has no real definition, and sorry for being judgmental, that was very inconsiderate of me
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All "alphas" are all assholes.
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@TheSpaceGnome But I'll take my chances where can I find one, no one has answered my question
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Thats because you want a nice guy alpha who fucks good, and thats not a real thing.
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I answered your question
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@TheSpaceGnome how do you know
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Because guys have alpha/beta mentality because they are assholes, or because their dick is tiny and they are trying to compensate.
No confident, intelligent, kind hearted male who's good in bed, is going to have alpha mentality, because that mentallity is stupid and useless to them. - +1 y
As if having good qualities needs to have the label "Alpha" to mean anything
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@TheSpaceGnome Oh... thank you then, I shouldn't have asked this question
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Alpha/beta mentality isn't about good qualities, it's about putting people down to compensate for one's own insecurity, and about telling others what they should be like, rather than accepting diversity and that not everyone else agrees what "good" or "better" is. It's a stupid and assholish way to think.
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I acknowledge that what you said is right but what I meant was not that, I meant that person A with certain qualities does not get an edge over person B with the same qualities just because he's "Alpha", it's totally in his head, if it was real Companies would list "Alpha" as job qualification
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@SAMI_DABBAB Ah ok, yeah I agree with that.
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@TheSpaceGnome coming from an omega, sure
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@mobiusforniner if going by this, sure I guess I match the omega, but minus not having time to care for others. I make time for that.
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But wait, I also fit #1 and #4 from alpha, #1(minus needing admiration and approval) and #4 from beta, everything from gamma except the second half of #2, and #4 from sigma.
The problem with trying to catagorize people, is people aren't fabricated stereotypes who fit into catagories, we are evolved individuals. So charts like this are dumb.
Also 99.9% of men who label themselves as alphas, don't view personality types as variants, they view them as a quality check and think they are better than everyone else, which is why they are jerks.
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they dont exist any more, thanks to rampant leftism, feminism, and soy...
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They really don't exist anymore
Depends on what you are looking for in a relationship with an alpha male, luv
00 Reply- 3.5K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Master Age: 37+1 y
Visit your local prison.
20 Reply 826 opinions shared on Relationships topic. go out looking meek not to meek or your look dum.
10 Reply- Xper 6 Age: 25+1 y
I’m in the woods a lot (don’t ask)
10 Reply 1K opinions shared on Relationships topic. At the Alpha Male meetings.
10 ReplyEvery male with a partner is an alpha male.
00 Reply- Master Age: 56+1 y
Biker bar
10 Reply - 1.3K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Guru Age: 16+1 y
Forest. Lions are for Filthy Casuals
00 Reply 2.6K opinions shared on Relationships topic. The former president would probably agree.
00 Reply- 725 opinions shared on Relationships topic. Master Age: 42 , mho 38%+1 y
Try visiting a zoo.
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do you think you are good looking?
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I know I'm beautiful
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at the store for 99 cents lol
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Everywhere
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