He does lots of things, I will list a handful of things.
He holds the door open for me or opens the car doors. I definitely was not used to that, and it was a habit for me to open my own doors, but he would run to the other side just to open it for me. Super sweet.
He insists I make him a playlist of my “old” music because it makes him happy and feel upbeat since he usually listens to his hip hop or rap and whatnot. He also wants me to play my “emo” music, like the hard rock and heavy metal music that he doesn’t like, just so he can sing along with me in the car.
When we first said “I love you” we got bored of the “I love you/I love you too” thing. So, I started saying “I love you the more/I love you most” and we always would try to one-up each other. We started saying “I love you mostest.” We are both stubborn as hell, so both of us saying “I love you mostest” would be constant bickers back and forth. We started to do a system where every other day, we got to say “I love you mostest.” On his days, he will text me almost every hour or say to my face “I love you mostesssttt” in a high pitched voice to annoy me since I can’t argue it on his day lol.
When I’m on my period or I’m having an emotional day, he will go out of his way to do everything he can to spoil me. He will drive to the store right after he gets off work to get me a “goodie bag” full of stuff, in his uniform (which he hates wearing in public), just to grab stuff and bring it over to me. He will sit with me and talk with me until I start to smile and feel better or fall asleep. And he will continue to stay with me until he needs to leave.
He walks into my house and drops everything to give me a hug and kiss and then immediately goes to my dog and pets her. My dog is super needy and absolutely loves my boyfriend, so he will sit down with her and pet her until she stops whining lol. He spoils her. He also goes over and plays with my gecko, Ollie, and gives him a big kiss when he first gets there and when he’s about to leave, calling him “my son.” Super sweet lol.
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Dances and sings when she thinks I'm not around. I'm pretty sneaky and quiet, so I'll catch her dancing and singing and I seriously just melt lol.
Followed by the semi-ashamed look when she notices me. Gets me every time lol
I don't know if this counts as small but before COVID, I went on overseas business trips about four times a year from Japan to Los Angeles. I've been doing that since my 20s since I work remotely and our company values meeting face-to-face regularly throughout the year.
When I started dating my now-wife, she always insisted on meeting me at the airport when I flew back from Los Angeles to Japan. That's like a 2-hour train ride for her to Narita Airport. I'd tell her she doesn't need to do that and she'd insist and come anyway, even canceling plans with her friends to meet me there.
So every time after the long and exhausting trip from Los Angeles to Japan while I'm all jet-lagged, she'd always be there waiting for me smiling and run to me and jump and I'd drop all my baggage and catch her.
Not only did she do that a few times but she never missed a single time for over 10 years in spite of me having to make these overseas trips 4+ times/years. She was always there on my arrival back to Japan.
My exes never did that once let alone consistently for 10+ years.
Flirty banter, talking about her day, my day, being expressive and going in every detail while communicating with me. Also, her choice of words at times, it's lovely.
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That's such an amazing question!
I cherish the simplest things my fiance does but there are three adorable ones: he never forgets to text Good Morning; he calls me every day after he gets home from work just to ask about my day and he gives me a rose every month on the 6th day because that's the day we had our first kiss. He never miss a day.My wife is a talker. She loves talking and she talks with her hands frequently. So seeing her talking with her hands and just seeing her be passionate infatuates me. Also, she plays with my chest and hair involuntary, and when she does, woohoo.
If I had a girlfriend I would hope she would offer to just do the simple things once in a while that way I'm not ALWAYS doing them. For example offer to do the dishes or even cook that night. I don't want to have to be expected to ALWAYS do something
When he says he misses me when I just left five minutes ago. Whenever I get a good morning text from him. When he wakes me up with kisses.
Showing extreme happiness for good things and getting worried for little bad things happening to me really melts my heart
Im not in a relationship but weekly date night
Nothing cause I don’t have a partner !!!
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I’m cooking makes me melt
Touches, long walks, terrace talks.
Wakes me up with a blowjob
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