Boy crazy issues?

[bunnyboo364]

I guess I’m boy crazy? I love being loved and I love having crushes. It makes me
happy getting dressed to impress them when I go to school. Or just someone to think about. I read a lot of romantic fanfics and what not. But it’s like the second I get in a situation involving relationships or them liking back, I feel overwhelmed and scared. Is this normal?

[NamerOfStars]

Yeah, that's pretty common. The IDEA of being with a boy (in whatever sense) is appealing and never disappoints; reality is usually messier. Actually, "reality is usually messier" applies to pretty much everything; it's the kind of thing people should make sewn samplers of (a pity I have no grandmothers left; I'd ask one of them to make me one). Then, if someone read it and asked what reality was messier than, I'd explain that you'd THINK a sampler would contain already applied folksy wisdom, but... and then point to it, so it's even self-reinforcing. Man, I have to see if there's some place that rents grandmothers; this works even better than I thought!

Anyway, yes, it's common. Taking the risk of interacting with someone you have feelings for can backfire horribly. Eventually, you'll overcome that fear, but until then, you have to deal with it.

[exitseven]

When I was in high school girls were all I thought about. However I was painfully shy. Even when I knew a girl liked me I still could not make a move. I never went out on a date the whole time I was in high school. I would say that you are very normal.

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[Anonymous]

I reserve judgement until the war is over and this properly investigated. Could very easily be a false flag operation to drum up international outrage and support from the American public, us government's have done such things in the past.
It's possible war crimes have been committed by both sides. Recently read a piece claiming Ukrainians giving Russian soldiers food as a gesture of good will that turn out to be posion.

Who stands to benefit the most from this war? Ukraine? Russia? The EU? China? Or as is my opinion the puppet master United States?

[Prettygirly26]

You're just young and full of hormones. It's normal

[Interstate]

It is completely normal. Relationships and crushes are a major stess-or on the emotions and heart. If you are not used to them, they are overwhelming.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

No offense, this is normal for teens and it can take a while
to really fall in love, this is more common in girls than in guys
but I imagine guys go through something similar not too sure?

[Contra1166]

it's totally normal it's your biological drives getting loud. same goes for boys being girl crazy. It's something I regret not being more out there in my teen years I was painfully shy.

[innerman]

It’s okay to feel scared
Life would be so boring without all these emotions
the thrill is in taking the risk and letting yourself be vulnerable infront of someone.

[KoolKidKv93]

same but no one likes me lol :(

i mean girl crazy not boy crazy lol

[Creampiekarl420]

It’s better than being girl crazy I never used the guy’s bathroom in highschool

[Anonymous]

Typical of young females.

When you hit the wall at 30 you will become desperate and pathetic and it will look good on you.

[clemdenim]

Maybe you are afraid of messing up, or afraid they will not like you, try to let that go

[Kaneki05]

Sounds pretty normal.

[TheMajesticKing777]

Yep it's pretty normal

[elizamichale1]

Yup completely normal darling

[IveGotNoName]

You're in love with the idea of love. It's normal.

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Yup it's very common , some just don't admit it

[RARETRAMP]

One wouldn't be boy crazy if they saw me

[Jamie05rhs]

I think that's very normal for girls.

[fred_durst]

i guess it is normal for someone your age

[SignedAutographs]

You're def. boy crazy

[msc545]

Yes, normal. It is just hormones.

[luvstoned4him]

Pretty normal

[UpdateGloomyNights_]

You're falling in love

[collie22]

sounds normal to me

[crmoore]

It's fairly normal