Boy trouble in high school I really need help with this situation?

[Bulletproof04]

Okay, I'm in high school, I have a boyfriend but this group of guys keeps staring at me and one of them keeps making eye contact with me. And I don't really know what to do because I have to admit he's kinda attractive. He's an upperclassman my parents don't let me date upper classmen either, but the thing is I have a boyfriend too so I'm kinda stuck.

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I think I need to take a break from the relationship I have but then yet again I don't want to break my boyfriend's heart I'm not that kind of person to do that to him. I don't think I would be strong enough to take that distance on though💔😣🦋

[Iknowbestgirls]

If your not that kind of person don't do it. Don't be a cheater. Stay faithful. This is a test. You need to learn to resist the temptation of another guy. If you cheat on your current boyfriend with this upper classmen (who probably only wants to fuck you) then you will loose a lot of credibility. Other guys you try to date won't respect you because they will see you as an unfaithful, Less value woman. Not only will other men not respect you but your parents will be disappointed and lose respect for you as well.

Women who cheat are usually really low self-esteem and have Prometheus with themselves not the person that they are dating. If you cheat on him when you said you like him and he makes you happy then it just goes to show that you don't deserve your curry boyfriend any ways.

I know from personal experience that being cheated on by a girlfriend really fucked you up mentally and confidence wise. Don't be that kind of girl. Resist your temptation and stay faithful to your boyfriend. And if it's a group of guys they are probably trying to see which guy can fuck you first, then if you're down then the other guys with try to fuck you next. Be a faithful girlfriend not a cheater, it's not worth it. Like you dust your not that type of girl so don't be that type of girl.

[Bulletproof04]

yeah I've learned that with an upper classmen before and that's why Im sticking with my current one an d yes ik I've been cheated on before really messes you up with everything I'm not thinking of anything close to that tho so that's good ig

[NathanDavis]

you are not stuck... just be loyal to your boyfriend, as simple as that

[Bulletproof04]

I feel stuck though and of course, I'm trying to be loyal this is my first stable relationship so I'm unsure of things like this.

[NathanDavis]

don't be unsure...

cheating is bad

being loyal is good

things are very clear

[Bulletproof04]

No no, noo I'm not cheating I've been cheated on in my last relationship so that's not what I want the do I'm, not that kind of person to cheat😳

[NathanDavis]

this is really good...

maybe you should talk things through with your boyfriend, and communicate your feelings to him

[Bulletproof04]

Well I try to and everytime I do he goes MhM sure whatever and the next day takes it as a joke I just don't feel happy anymore

[Flower7]

Your parents don’t have to know the age of the guy who you date. And as long as he’s still a high-school student and under 18, I don’t see the problem with dating an upperclassman. If your boyfriend isn’t very interesting to you anymore, maybe it would be better to date the new guy. It’s not good to hang on to a mediocre relationship just to avoid hurting someone’s feelings.

[Gwenhwyfar]

Flirt a little. Lowkey. This reminds me of the plot of After.

[Bulletproof04]

But I have a boyfriend you really think I should flirt with someone else while he's with me.

[Gwenhwyfar]

How do you feel about your boyfriend?

[Bulletproof04]

Well, we've been together for six months now and he was gone for about three weeks with his family and I'm not gonna lie it was kinda nice I was back to my old self with friends and family, and it pisses me off when he and his friends want to hang out as I told him if he wants to hang out with them that's fine just let me know you're going with them but no he just leaves. I know how guys are with their friends they always want to hang out and that's fine. But lately I've been feeling like Im loosing feelings or something

[Gwenhwyfar]

Flirt with this guy a little. See what happens.

[Bulletproof04]

Okay I'll keep you updated I geuss. Thanks for the help

[Gwenhwyfar]

Awesome! Keep me posted

[Gwenhwyfar]

I think you should take a break

[Bulletproof04]

Yeah ik I don't feel as happy anymore as I use to and every time I try and talk to him about things like this he goes "Mhm sure whatever😒" and then the next day takes it as a joke😭💔

[Gwenhwyfar]

Taking a break is the right thing to do

[Bulletproof04]

Tbh I think it will be to now the thing is. Is telling him😣

[Gwenhwyfar]

Thanks girl 😊

[Anonymous]

High school relationships don't usually last, and if they do, its kinda very rare. DON'T CHEAT though. Cheating is bad. Also, finding other people attractive when you're in a relationship is absolutely normal, BUT you should NOT do anything about it, if you're in an exclusive relationship. If you are losing interest in your boyfriend, just break up with him, don't lead him on.

[Anonymous]

Best advice ever: don’t date in high school. If you wanna bang sure do that but never date. Stick to your studies. So my advice is dump your boyfriend, bang the guy, and get it out of your system so you can focus on a scholarship

[Bulletproof04]

OMFG I love this comment. But my parents have already met my boyfriend sooo yeahh and I don't want to cause anymore crap with them either they've already told me I was a disappointment so.

[DaveToo]

Shame on your parents for making such a moronic statement as that!.. It's nice to admire other men. He admires other women, I'm sure. If you feel trapped, however, with someone, then you need to re-evaluate your relationship with them

[Bulletproof04]

@DaveToo Thank you so much and no matter how hard I try for my parents its not good enough for them so I'm at the point of moving out after high school and just shutting the down if it doesn't get any better

[DaveToo]

There are advantages to moving out. Psychologically it's a plus under those circumstances. However, the disadvantage is having to pay your own way. Without a college degree, it's more difficult. Without medical insurance, unless you live in the UK or some other country that has free healthcare, it can be very expensive, particularly for women. Think long and hard before taking such a drastic step.

[Bulletproof04]

@DaveToo Yeah I'm trying to get into a really good College to become a Nurse but so far I've been shot down by my parents and its getting really difficult especially when I'm in a relationship like this one😣💔

[DaveToo]

If you are in pretty good shape, condition, and can pass the entrance exam, you might consider one branch or other of the armed forces, if you live in the US. You can learn your nursing trade there and continue on after you finish if you wish, the service will pay for your tuition.

[Bulletproof04]

@DaveToo huh I'll have to look into that

[Iknowbestgirls]

Bulletproof04 don't listen to any of these guys. They are trying you BS. Your already in a commited relationship and said you don't want to break your boyfriend's heart. So don't do it. It's not worth it and if you do something like that many men In your future will never take you seriously enough to respect you in a relationship and will most likely end up cheating in you too. Remember karma, what comes around goes around. Don't be that kind of girl or men won't respect you. Not real quality men ateast and the only guys you will get are guys that just wanna fuck.

[Bulletproof04]

@Iknowbestgirls yeah I was kinda thinking that something wasn't right about the ones but I'm staying with my current one right now I just have t talk to him and see what the plan is for us. And I'm the kind of person to ditch a guy I've been with for four months for someone I barely know and see around so I'm staying.

[Anonymous]

Just fuck whoever you want in high school, it's not a time to get serious with anyone.

[Bulletproof04]

no im that kind of girl ok my friends may be able to do that and be happy but not me I'm not a slutt or anything like that

[Samanthaharris2345]

i feel it, Close ur eyes, Which guy would you rather kiss, Cuddle with, Marry even, DO this honestly, Pick that one.

[Bulletproof04]

Girly if only it was that easy at this point I'm thinking I'm going to have to stay with my boyfriend I have rn. Thanks for giving me advice ill think about this one

[jshm2]

Meh, he's probably been paid by your boyfriend to see if you'll cheat.

Going by your post, your boyfriend is dating trash.

[Bulletproof04]

they dont even talk how would he pay him🤨

[Pete671]

Concentrate on studying, and if you don't want to be with your boyfriend break up, don't worry about silly boys staring, just ignore them,,,

[Bulletproof04]

okay😣

[Wise4myage]

Just stop making eye contact with him whenever you see him.

[Bulletproof04]

Okay I've tried that and that made things worst🤭

[Wise4myage]

How is that?

[Bulletproof04]

Like at first he would do like a glance and look away real quick but then I said whatever ignore it maybe hell get the hint I'm taken you know. But no now at lunch and before school he stares and doesn't look away.

[Wise4myage]

Just keep ignoring him and pay no attention.

[Bulletproof04]

Okay I'll try my best

[Wise4myage]

Fantastic.

[Bulletproof04]

Thank you so much for the help hope you have a great night or day!!

[Wise4myage]

Thanks, same to you.

[anylolone]

Tell your boyfriend he can date other chicks and then try to date him as well.

[Browneye57]

Hmmm... the games children play...

[Bulletproof04]

EXCUSE ME WHO THE HELL DO YOU THINK YOU ARE! get a life dude🤬

[Browneye57]

Look in the mirror toots. Who the fuck do YOU think YOU are? Get your own fukkin life. You act like a kid, look like a kid, a kidlett age. Yep, you're a child. A child that thinks they already know everything. FAIL

[Bulletproof04]

Wtf dude I seriously do not care what you have to say because if your going to come at me like that it just shows who the kid is. And I'm not going to sit here and argue with you about it either so Have a nice day and leave me alone nothing more🤮🤮🤮

[Browneye57]

You're so silly - YOU asked the Q. No wonder you have so many problems.

[Bulletproof04]

Yeah I did ask the question but I didn't ask a moron like you so thanks you can get out of here now old man🤮🙄

[Browneye57]

You don't get to make the rules. Block me if that makes you feel better. Or fuck off. I don't care.

[Bulletproof04]

When did I ever said I made the rules... oh wait I didn't that's right. And damn right I'm blocking you because I don't need an ugly old man commenting on my stuff so have a nice day and bye!