What's your relationship status?

[Subarugirl]

Single

Dating

Married

[ohshee]

So what is it is it single married or divorced
Might as well as confused on there too LOL because I'm all four of them
I was married a long time ago I was in divorced became single had a couple girlfriends split so I am single

But I am confused because I love relationships I love being in love I love being connected as one I love that Bond

So why am I single that's where I'm confused
I think for me right now I just and trying to find another piece of myself maybe even though I want to give myself to somebody there's a big responsibility there to become one

I think I'm at an age now to work I just want to set myself up first before I do anything. Before I get involved I want to somewhat retire I want to also go into another line of work another business did I do on the side that I really enjoy and you have to put yourself all the way into it in order to succeed

And I don't think it would be right to try to get into a relationship and balance that with something else I'm trying to succeed with and it just really sucks because I had so much passion desire and love inside of me that I want to share but I don't know if I could do both and the 100% with both so it's kind of a catch-22 with me
And it's the same time I just want to be in a relationship so bad because there's a lot of things that I miss not being in a relationship

In the things that I miss some of them I can just go out and get if I wanted to but I don't think that's cool either because then I feel like I'm using somebody and I don't want to do that I don't want to leave anybody else done so I just got to do without and bitch and moan about it LOL
Time I know it will all work out

[ArchivalMars2]

Honestly, I'm just not in any place to be dating, if I had the chance I'd want to but I can't right now. In the middle of trying to get a new job because the old one fell through and didn't enjoy it like I thought I would. Plus not very good at flirting and unfortunately I'm not a romantic I've just never been sure what to do. I can make friends with a girl easy but anything more not so much.

[muscularbumblebee]

Single but have been talking to someone online a couple years as if we’re dating but it’s complicated and we’re definitely not together (at least for now)


So yeah I’m single and not really interested in dating unless I find someone in person who I really like

[EmmaMary]

Extremely happily married, with one two year old little boy, and one on it's way... Thank you.

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHGirl.

[CourtneyJane2]

In an open relationship. I have a boyfriend and a girlfriend.

I allow my boyfriend to see my girlfriend as well, so there's a triangle aspect to our sex life.

[Gagname]

Oh wow, interesting…how long have you been with each?

And does you girlfriend have someone else too, beyond you & your boyfriend?

[CourtneyJane2]

@Gagname My boyfriend and I have been an item since last summer, prior to that we were friends with benefits while I was in an open relationship with someone else, and a few years prior to that we dated for a while... and prior to that we were friends, we were both strippers and we shared the stage a couple times and remained platonic despite seeing each other naked and having our hands all over each other during performances... until he was the other guy when me and my then-boyfriend decided to have a threesome.

My girlfriend has been in the picture since late January, she's also a stripper and I'm basically her mentor, both onstage/backstage and in the bedroom.

She's really precious and fragile, like a porcelain doll, young, naïve, and full of love, hence I'm so protective of her and it would destroy me if something unspeakable were to happen to her, which could easily happen with this lifestyle.

She turns 20 this summer and also like me she's a refugee from the bible belt and her family disowns her because she chose this life. My boyfriend and I share her and she also lives with us. As far as I know she doesn't see anybody else, but she's free to do so.

[Gagname]

So you know him quite well/for years and she is new, and the relationship works for you all—cool.

[glennos89]

Single and happy actually altough being alone can be a litle bit lonely at times but I'm okay with being alone for now. Finding love or staying alone is both something I can live with I guess 🤷🏼‍♂️

[Curiousnesshmmm]

Single, I don’t have a problem getting really beautiful women but connecting with one and finding them attractive is another story. I’m too picky I guess but I’m not waisting my time with a giyl thet I see no future with

[Paulalove98]

Single sadly but then again im not worrying about someone cheating or playing me.

[ShadezMcgee]

Currently dating. Coming up on two years here in July.

[AviatorTom]

D - Divorced, now in a Serious relationship with a woman... going on 6 years

[SolitarySolace]

Single by choice. Love isn't worth finding with so much selfishness, hate, manipulation, narcissisticness, and unnecessary revenge out there.

[Paul09]

See a pattern here. Men mostly single. Women, not so much. I wonder why...

[Subarugirl]

and significantly more men are married than women... interesting.

[Paul09]

Well it takes 2 to marry lol.

[Subarugirl]

and it takes 2 to date... its not like there are that many more women then there are men. Though I have noticed that this site seems to over run with bitter incels.. More men on here than women for sure.

[Paul09]

Lol just saying , way easier for women.

[Subarugirl]

Depends, to get laid.. sure, it wouldn't be if so many men weren't totally sluts though.. if you don't mind dropping your standards. Finding a good partner who is compatible and actually able to contribute to the relationship is a whole different story.

[Paul09]

That's exactly what I'm looking for. I'm not out there just looking for sex. I want something real. But I also would not reject sex, if that's what she wanted those other men ruin it for other men.

[Subarugirl]

Then that requires effort and being the kind of person that someone would want to be with.

[Slartybartfast]

Obviously, some of the women are dating the same guy.

Later we will read how they were surprised the that the guy they chose is cheating.

"Women would rather share a ten, then date a nine."

[Subarugirl]

@Slartybartfast who are you quoting?

[loveslongnails]

There's no option for "long term, open relationship" ! :)

[Subarugirl]

Dating.

[loveslongnails]

That's not "dating", except perhaps, in your eyes.

[Subarugirl]

Well it applies according to the definition of what dating is. Long term romantic/sexual relationship… that’s dating

[loveslongnails]

I disagree, both in principle and by definition. If I'm in a relationship that's been going on for 10 years, living together, sharing all assets, etc, and the only thing different from a "traditional relationship" is that we have the option to enjoy sex with others, that's not "dating" to me. There's a commitment there, but it's not defined by monogamy or the traditional norm.

[Subarugirl]

Well you can disagree but it doesn’t change facts. People used to say the same thing about biracial relationships. However there is a big difference between relationship and than what society views as a “tradition” relationship. Just because you don’t get it doesn’t make it invalid.

[loveslongnails]

I'm sorry darlin', but just because YOU see it in a certain way, and ONLY that way, or society sees it ONLY that way, doesn't make my relationship invalid or my status unacceptable. You've lost me with the biracial reference.

If my girl and I are together in every sense of the "traditional" way but we don't tie the knot, or we aren't monogamous, there is no "fact" that says "well, you're just dating then and not in a REAL relationship"! We're not "dating", and just because you don't get it, doesn't make it invalid.

[Subarugirl]

I’m not the one trying to redo fine words…

[loveslongnails]

Dating is loosely defined as " to be romantically involved with someone". According to THAT definition, you'd still be dating even if you're married, and virtually ANY involvement that had a hint of romance (whatever THAT is defined as), would be considered dating. So accordingly, only platonic relationships would be "not dating", but I don't think you'd get agreement on that either.

[Subarugirl]

There are literal articles about how married couples shouldn’t stop dating lol…. Well there is quite the difference between romantic involvement and any hint of romance. And it really depends on which definition of romance you are referring to, because things get romanticized all the time, like having a door opened for you, dancing, or just plain kindness from a stranger.

[loveslongnails]

That's a nice aside, but it has nothing to do with the point we're discussing. And what in the world is a "literal article" ? LOL I don't even understand what point you're trying to make any more.

[Subarugirl]

Well if you stayed on topic, I’m sure you would be less confused. My point is that just because you don’t agree with the definition of a word, doesn’t change its definition.

[Nigjt]

I say single but dating because there isn't just anyone who has become that special one just yet.
God Bless

[nawtee_me]

Single and looking for my last relationship. Not the last one I had but the last one I will ever need...

[aggravatedbytchx]

Single and don’t want a man around for shit honestly.

[Iron_Man]

Single with a chat girl gag buddy that is crushing on me and Me as well

[Chthou95]

Most men are single nowadays. Im single because i don't want to deal with headaches

[Subarugirl]

Actually according to pew research most men are not single…

[Chthou95]

Where's your data?

[Subarugirl]

www.pewresearch.org/.../

[Subarugirl]

"about three-in-ten U. S. adults (31%) say they are single – that is, not married, living with a partner or in a committed romantic relationship"

[Subarugirl]

and according to the research paper half of that 31% say they are intentionally single and are not looking to date by choice.

[Chthou95]

lifestyle.livemint.com/.../...111633509440553.html

[Chthou95]

boingboing.net/.../adult-male-virginity-soars.html

[Chthou95]

Interesting. These stats seem to tell very different

[Subarugirl]

So that first article is talking about how there is a rise in single people, but adults in in relationships still outweigh those who aren’t.

[Subarugirl]

The second said there is a rise in virginity who isn’t surprising since there is a rise in people being single

[Slartybartfast]

That link litteraly says that %51 of men 18-29 are single. That's a small majority, but still a majority.

[Subarugirl]

@Slartybartfast in that age group, but the majority above that aren’t single. So when incorporating all age groups, more men are in relationships then they are single

[Chthou95]

I mean who pays for onlyfans subscriptions men or women? How many simps are spending millions and millions of dollars on onlyfans subscriptions when porn is free? Way too many. And a lot of them aren't even subscribing because they're horny. a lot do it because they're lonely and have no experiences with women. There are more male virgins than women. Women are having sex but only with a small percentage of men which they have every right to do so. But men are experiencing loneliness more than women. There are so many pickup artist on youTube dedicated to helping men succeed. There's not nearly as many for women. Men have to create value to be a someone women want to date & fuck. 80/20 rule

[Subarugirl]

And why is that an issue? You want a participation trophy or something?

[Chthou95]

Because women complain that men have it easy and other privileges blah blah blah. Accept that as a woman, you have privileges men will never see

[Subarugirl]

Like what? Bodily autonomy? Oh wait…

[Chthou95]

That abortion thing won't pass. You'll still be able to have your abortions that my tax dollars have to pay. But you have that right. Men don't have to financially opt out of fatherhood if you keep the baby. The cards are stacked in your favor

[Chthou95]

Have the right*

[Slartybartfast]

I have a selective service card, men do not have "bodily autonomy"

[Subarugirl]

@Slartybartfast and when has the selective service registration impacted you personally? Hmm

[Subarugirl]

And my taxes pay for your roads, the school you went to, state government. I can afford an abortion if I needed on hon you can keep your pocket change. The fathers don’t have to sacrifice their bodies and organs either. How ever you’re still responsible for your actions.

[Slartybartfast]

As in how many men in my family died in wars? How many friends?

To many.. way to many.

Probably not the answer you expected.

[Subarugirl]

@Slartybartfast and how many of those were forced to fight against their will?

[Slartybartfast]

36,954 just in Vietnam.. not including the suicides in the years after.

[Subarugirl]

@Slartybartfast 36 of your friends and family... that's interesting considering you would have been 3 years old.

[Slartybartfast]

Ever seen Forrest Gump? Remember Dan's family? That's mine.

You're in a hole, stop digging.

[Subarugirl]

@Slartybartfast I asked how many of your friends and family were forced to fight against their will. Im not digging anything, you just aren't answering the question.

[Chthou95]

Sweetheart do you use the road too? You're really going to compare the two? People pay for your abortions and really don't benefit in any way from it. You pay for roads to be built but guess what? You still get to to drive on the road. Very poor comparison. I don't care if you get an abortion. Get as many as you want. But my money my choice has to be a thing too. Lile Dave? chappelle said "If you can kill this motherfucker, i have the right to abandon him" that's Equality

[Slartybartfast]

My answer is MANY.. not one, not two not several...

In fact that is how the majority of men in my family died since WWI. I'm litteraly the last man left in my family tree my last name dies with me.

[Subarugirl]

Well I don't get to chose not to fund Viagra… which is government funded by the way. I don't get to decide chose where my taxes go any more than you do. Since I'm not on government funded programs any procedures that I chose to have done would be paid through me and my private insurance hon. Once you pay your taxes it's not your money anymore...

[Chthou95]

But if feminists are all about being independent, you should be able to pay for it without any assistance. If you really want to abortions, pay for it on your own. Oh but that's right feminism doesn't want that. They want it paid for and covered. Typical feminists 😂. And guess who still has to buy the Viagra? The guy that wants it. You don't have to pay for abortions at all so how can you compare these two?

[Subarugirl]

I can afford my own bills hon… but let’s back that up a little bit and talk about all of the money that the government pays out for Viagra. Do you want to talk about where your moneys going to maybe talk about the 400,000 children in foster care…

[Chthou95]

Good for you. That doesn't dismantle the fact that women still have their abortions paid for. Sure let's hear where it's going 🙄

[Subarugirl]

And men have their Viagra paid for. So what’s your point?

[Chthou95]

Do they have to go to a store or online and still pay for it?

[Subarugirl]

Last I checked my FAD wasn’t covered by the government.

[Chthou95]

One exception defeats my argument. Congrats you won the debate

[Subarugirl]

I don’t wanna win the fucking argument I want to have bottle auto autonomy Brad

[Jouth]

On Thursday she's leaving town and at that point, we're done forever.

Until then tho it's chaotic and amazing.

[Poseidonboi]

Complicated
She hasn't talked to me in nearly 3 weeks
So im like meh guess ima be single

[Titlover01]

Single. And unfortunately I don’t see it changing any time soon. As much as I would like it to

[Anonymous]

Dating but it doesn't feel like a true relationship

[Snsl153]

At the moment single. And you?

[Apple1996]

Married 💍