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How would you deal with blackmail?

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  • mstbooblover
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    My reaction to blackmail is to just don't give a damn whatever the result. It happened to me a few times, first time being at school, last time a few years ago because of some porn selfies. I know this can be a difficult decision in some situations, but if ever you give in once, nothing will prevent you from being victim again. Whatever the result of sending the blackmailer to the devil, you're not responsible. Keep that always in mind. Actually I found rather amusing when a blackmailer threatened me to send some of my porn selfies to my friends and family. I told him (or her ?) to just proceed, which never happened sadly. I was eager to know the reactions... ;0)

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  • Ghostluck
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    I would laugh at them, tell them to do whatever they have to do and walk away laughing my ass off. Then I would stop, turn around and say to them, "By the way, do your worst... but just remember... for the rest of your life you will be wise to look over your shoulder... one day, when I have nothing else to lose, I'm going to be standing right behind you."

    Then I would smile with the most stone cold face I could ever muster up... and walk away.

    Whatever they have to ruin you, you can recover from over time. What you cannot recover from is some idiot holding this information over you for the rest of your life. No matter what, be strong.

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  • Breanna_nonbinary
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    I say never let it bother you. If it does then they have the power to blackmail you. If you don’t let it bother you then they can’t hold it over you. If they send it to people you know, who cares. Who is rude enough to say something to you? Everyone takes selfies and nude selfies so from a moral aspect it’s hypocritical to believe coworkers haven’t done the same. Beside you could just claim it’s not you. They can’t prove it is you. Just tell them it’s photoshopped. Or your face pasted in the video.
    Remember blackmailers only have the power to blackmail if you let it bother you. 😊

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  • Agape93
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    Call inspector gadget.

    All jokes aside, people will die. I don't do well with threats, especially of that nature, and I don't care who gets in my way. Either help me or get out of the way, otherwise they'll go down too.

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  • Brainsbeforebeauty
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    I'm as open a book as you can get, so there'd be nothing to black mail me with... No shame in my game... 🤷🏼‍♀️ Lol

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      That is good

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    • Brainsbeforebeauty
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      @serious thanks☺️

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  • ArtemisSilver
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    The funny part of being openly polyamorous is that I have nothing to hide, so whatever they think is blackmail is at best a nuisance/harassment. I'd probably tell em to roll up their photos and shove em up their ass for all I care.

    On the off chance that it were a very serious matter, I'd probably just un alive the person fucking with me. Thankfully I don't do anything that crazy in the first place. I'm a chill guy now

    Thankfully, I didn't go down that path in life. I know I could do some bad shit, almost did, but I choose not too because I love my wife n kids to be tempted like that.

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  • EmbraceThePain
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    I want to say, generally, one might be better served being truthful and forthcoming to appropriate authorities or people, rather than following through with whatever demand the the person blackmailing wants. For me personally, I don’t have anything in my past where if someone is blackmailing with it, would scare me so much that I’d have to give into their demands rather than have my past or truth come out.

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  • LexiLuv91
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    Pray for the person doing the blackmailing. If whatever situation they're in is SO bad that they would have to use some power play or leverage and "expose" whatever dirt they have on me, their shame is for them and them alone and they can carry that burden. I won't succumb to it. Even in a worst case scenario and there's some exposure.. whats going to happen? Embarrassment? Temporary. Shame? Temporary. Next.

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  • MAC1983
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    Go public with everything including the blackmail, involve the police. You can look at it in a "the truth will set you free" light if you want, or take a more cynical route.

    That is just what I would do. Each one of us know our circumstances and one can feel the risk is too great.

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  • Ms_Facesitter
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    One is to not have anything they can use to blackmail you with. Two... I can get myself to zone in and focus completely on obtain a certain set of skills in a short amount of time if I do choose. That little superpower can be used to do good, to be a better person... but I can also use that to do harm. If you cross me with something like blackmail I'll be at your door with multiple ways to have you wish you had never done so.

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  • CloudMassacre
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    I unblackmail myself by just bringing the dirt out, IDGAF if someone blackmails me. I’m not really doing anything super heinous, I watch big dildo porn, but if someone is going to judge me for that, FUCKEM they aren’t worth my time. I don’t do anything with animals or kids, so what even blackmail would they have other than some mildly weird porn

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  • loveslongnails
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    Someone tried that on me once or twice. I said "thanks for putting it in writing, about your intentions." I then showed them the statutes about how it's a federal crime, whether it's extortion or blackmail, and the sentence it carries. I said if it's worth it to you, come and get it. You'll need far more than that to cover your lawyer bills while you try and stay out of prison.

    They never did do anything. LOL

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  • Leshen
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    I don't really know. I'd try to think of a way to turn things in my favor for sure, but it would be a stressful situation still. Depending on what they're holding over me (like family) I would be scared to risk getting caught trying to one up them.

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  • libsaretards
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    "Go ahead. There is nothing you can say that those who hold any important position in my life do not already know about. You won't be telling them something they don't already know. When you're done, kindly get the fuck out of my life".

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  • Spotifyplaylist
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    Find some dirt on them and use it or make sure I have a way to explain that sounds believable😁

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    • AFretiredTXn
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      Like it.

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  • SaoirseS u
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    Arrange their disappearance so they will never be found probably, though there isn’t anything anyone could blackmail me for.

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    • The_Shadow_Dweller
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      You sure?

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    • SaoirseS u
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      Positive.

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    • The_Shadow_Dweller
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      I like that confidence. I want it!

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  • NYCQuestions1976
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    I would hope the writing or print on the mail was in white. Otherwise it'd be nearly impossible to read.

    Okay I'll go stand in the corner now and think about what I've done.

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  • BCRanger10 u
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    Simple. I wouldn't get myself into a situation where that is a possibility.

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  • OldWorldOrder
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    Stall for time.
    Counter-intel.
    Maybe hire a hacker or PI.
    The person responsible would disappear. Their body would never be found.

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  • TommyMountainFigure
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    Simple. Obtain counter leverage in whatever form that might take!

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  • slatyb
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    I'm not susceptible to blackmail because I have no secrets to keep.

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  • crossdressingrihno
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    Yeah they're going to have a real good time blackmailing me

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  • genericname85
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    i don't. i mean if someone wante to publish some information about me, they could dot hat. i don't care xD

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  • CuriousMufuxka
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    A middle finger and thumb. Any dirt on me I've either admitted or couldn't be proven in court. Take your empty threat and plant it deeply inside your shithole!

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  • Mickbert
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    Depending on what I’m being blackmailed for it could be SUPER hot!

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  • MrtoddsWildRide
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    Ignore it. Most of the time, if they expose you, they are exposing themselves also.

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  • SlangSlayer
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    Accept the black. mail and don't let whatever shaming you define you.

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    • SlangSlayer
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      Black mail only works if care or scared

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  • Uptowngirl88
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    They don't have anything for anyone to blackmail me with

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  • Jamie05rhs
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    No one can blackmail me. Because I'm not afraid of anything.

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  • Caunsos
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    Amit to the wrong doing. There not telling how much the blackmailed will continue to ask for.

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  • zagor
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    I'm pretty shameless so they wouldn't get anything from me.

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  • driven159
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    It's really simple don't do anything to get blackmailed for if that fails then kill the blackmailer

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  • Ozzie_Cheddar
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    The only dirt they'd have on me is that I'm into Femdom. I wouldn't care.

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  • Christian65
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    Who do you think I am? Leaking it will do nothing, I'm not famous.

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  • Creampiekarl420
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    Xper 6 Age: 25
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    People know what I’m all about jerked off while a girl punched the shit out of my face

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  • Anonymous
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    Simple I’d kill the person. Problem solved.

    🤷‍♂️

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  • michael1469
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    Let em try. Nothing i have done in my life is so embarrassing that i face the world about it.

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  • RickHM
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    Probably spending hours trying to figure who is blackmailing me and why.

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  • DermalPunch
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    Go for it. I'm ready for you.

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  • exitseven
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    I would track them down and silence them.

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  • chokeonDaddysbigD
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    Shoot the mother fuckers

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  • Gibbons44
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    Xper 4 Age: 47
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    Are you transgender or fully gendered?

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  • motownplayer2000
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    I don't know. I hope I’m never in that situation

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  • Straight2thepoint
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    Deal with the consequences.

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  • Iron_Man s
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    Ruthless aggression Physical physical physical

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  • imfreeze95
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    Brutally and ruthlessly

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  • lofii
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    I kill the blackmailer

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  • msc545
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    It depends on what I was being blackmailed with.

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  • Ringstretch
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    Probably give in to it

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  • SapioLuna
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    Prevention.

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  • BareTruth
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    I’d tell them I’m your huckleberry

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  • Luopio27
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    Call the cops.

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  • OddBeMe
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    Call me

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  • Selene_94
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    I’d out myself then.

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  • shortster
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    Report and block.

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    • shortster
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      My rule is to never give money to people who I haven't met in person. Any amount for any reason; and that includes blackmail.

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  • Intothevoid666
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    The police

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    violence

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