How would you react if your partner tells you this?

[Anonymous]

If your wife/hus or partner in serious relationship (you're gonna marry) tells,

"If I do it with any other partner again in future, I'll remember your face when doing"

I asked "You thought about doing it with other people? Tell me that one more time"

Partner: "Yes I've thought doing everything with other guy"

I got sad, angry and shocked and i punched her shoulder.

How would be your reaction if your partner told you this?

[annyasansiri]

i'm currently like this towards my partner.
i can tell you it's just to try and make you jealous, and we're just being playful. but talking like this for me, it's to have the upper hand and trying to have to guy submit to me, because i want to avoid being the submissive one. (but without being bold)

lately my own boyfriend has dealt my way of talking by not reacting and acting cold, which works and makes me feel like i dont get any attention, but it also makes us grow more distant.

your partner wants attention and you should sometimes give it to them, because although the "not reacting" works, it will move your relationship in another way (a cold way)

which in the future, won't so great. (if you love them then why go against your own partner?)

finally,
i suggest you play along - but only sometimes- to give your partner and the relationship a "playful hint" to it. (so both of you can still enjoy each other)

[Asker]

Lol but this mind games are so hard. I played along, but she don't like to loose. I easily get hurt and become angry. Also Isn't it a slutty talk? like "I've imagined doing with other guy".

[Anonymous]

I dont say this often
But your girlfriend is retarted

[Asker]

How would you react if your partner told you this?

[Opinion Owner]

I dont hit my partner. But I'd be really fucking hurt
Tell him to sleep on the couch for a while

[Asker]

That's a cute revenge. We sometimes hit eachother playfully. But this time it was hard.

This happened yesterday and she told "you know I've never thought like that. I said that for fun". But I'm getting hurt when recalling what she said. Should I leave it or ask about it?

[Opinion Owner]

You should maybe apologize for hitting her one. And two just ask her what was she thinking playing mind games with you like that... not cool

[Asker]

Yeah I apologised and asked "would you tell that again" she said "Yes". I know she's playing but that hurts.

[Opinion Owner]

Nah bro.

[TheLoneTerran]

That's pretty cold if this isn't some sort of in-joke in the relationship.

[Asker]

But as a joke is it okay?

[TheLoneTerran]

It would depend entirely on the dynamic of the relationship and their two personalities. For me, on the safe side, I would not do it. But they may be more comfortable.

[Beccaasaar]

That's rude and she has no care in the world for you, she's going to cheat or has already done it

[Skfisllw]

I don't know what I say... Terrible