I feel like my virgin girlfriend wants to have sex a little soon, but the guy in me wants to go along with it as well, what should I do?

[Anonymous]

We've only been dating about a month and a half and I'm her first boyfriend, we've been moving kinda fast which is okay with me up until this point honestly, we both really care about each other, maybe even both love each other

[NamerOfStars]

Well, sit back and think about it. Ask yourself if you really think you're ready, and if you aren't (which is okay; sex is a big thing, and while it might raine an eyebrow from her, she should accept it if you're not there yet), tell her. Think, though, what would move you in that direction, and if there are lower-level things you'd feul comfortable with to ease you into it.

I mean, you're dating; presumably you're attracted, so of course you'd want to have sex. But that doesn't mean you need to rush in. Your decisions control you, not your hormones.

[Anonymous]

Then just tell her you want to wait.