566 opinions shared on Relationships topic. Nope, I forget almost everything about the first woman I slept with. She just kind of took me, it was confusing as all hell, I was young, she was older, and that went on for a while, I only remember her first name and what her hair looked like.
For my first love, first ex-wife, whatever, only her name, that she cheated a lot, had sausage fingers, and one time met my current wife. Vaguely I remember what her tits and face looked like as well. Sometimes having a bad memory is a good thing, everything I have written from then is pretty horrible. It's better off gone to oblivion.10 Reply
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Vividly, also part of the reason why I'll never let another woman that close ever again. She was the first & the last to ever be allowed in my heart.
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Both. I have trust issues from some things that happened to me from the ages 4-12, till I was old enough to fight her & her friend off. They were doing it to her brother too; If I didn't comply I'd be smothered with a pillow until I passed out.
I had an older brother, told him & got slapped in the face. After that I felt like I could never talk about it & it went on for 11 more years. She had me thinking it was something to be proud of. As you can see I have trust issues, especially with woman & in a way I think the best thing I can do is let them find someone else because I'm damaged beyond repair.
I have no problems being vulnerable with even total strangers but I do have problems letting anyone close. I became an open book after many years of trying to fix myself. Therapy was a waste of time. I tried speaking with several friends when younger & got told "must of been awesome / great etc.. - +1 y
thank you for your willingness to share & i’m sorry you had to experience those things. i completely understand feeling damaged beyond repair & hope that one day everyone who feels that way can overcome such feelings. i hope one day you’ll be able to heal completely and open your heart back up to receive & give a true love ❤️🩹
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Wasn't your fault:) I've learned to accept who I am & where I came from. I don't look to erase / forget the past but move on from it. That's why I always drive the women I really like away, consequence of trauma & I feel like I'm doing them a favor. Also why a man will burst into tears & leave if he see's you shave down there. True love is sacrifice, in my opinion anyway. That's what life taught me anyway.
+1 yMy first love is my high school sweet heart I will never forget him and he will never forget me I am his first love girlfriend he is my first love boyfriend. We dated for 6 years and are still dating right now went on a date yesterday. So to answer your question yes guys and girls always remember there first love because they were the first love that started everything for them when it comes to love you never forget your first love! 😍
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1.3K opinions shared on Relationships topic. I know my first love will always remember me. I was his first girlfriend and we were together for three years.
After I broke up with him and married another guy 8 months later, his heart was broken 💔. Many years later I contacted him. He moved from California to Colorado for 3 years to get over me. When I asked him why 3 years, he said "Because that's how long we were together."23 Reply
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u +1 yHer name was Victoria and she was all I thought about in 11th grade, 52 years ago.
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+1 yPeople remember anyone in their life who was important to them. Our memories are who we are.
On the other hand, I think most people have a lot of crushes when they are young and in school. I don't remember all the girls I had a crush on. But I definitely remember all of my serious crushes.
More than 50 years later there are some girls that I still think fondly of and hope they did well in life and are happy. They bring a smile to my face thinking about them. No, I have definitely not forgotten.10 Reply
Anonymous(25-29)+1 yYea... That is for sure. I think that when I find someone else I honestly think that I will never forget but it won't be that kind of love. It was pure and innocent and she was so sweet to me. A way that I have never been treated in a LONG ass time.
I also remember being so happy back then and she made me somehow even happier. I remember the last time I seen her too and I really was not in the mood to talk to anyone that day. She was not in my classes anymore but I still seen her once in a while.
I also remember who I used to be10 Reply1.6K opinions shared on Relationships topic. I think if you were truly in love do you remember all of them somehow it like they're all part of your life and vice versa they were a teaching tool to teach you where you are at now they were a guide we are all guides are teachers we hopefully have learned from something that happened or done when we were together or breaking up Love Is Love love is powerful and I don't think that you would forget even though you want to sometimes anybody that you loved
10 ReplyDon't know about love, but I certainly remember every crush I've had up to this moment. Most have been regular appearence-based infatuations. Then two from meeting them in different contexts then usual. Both from martial arts practice, one in commuting and the other one at a party. Then an odd one, which was that we used the same software for music production.
20 ReplyLove has a complicated definition... But yes, whatever you call it, you remember it.
I remember the girl I loved in 3rd grade, I was shy, never said anything, never found her after 5th grade, but I still remember her and whenever I think of her, I get goosebumps and tingling sensation...
After that I have felt some feelings for many girls who I still remember but won't call it love.
The second (and real love) of my life is my wife. We met at the age of 16/14, got married after 10 years.10 ReplyIt wasn't love but I do remember my first crush his name was Austin he had blonde hair, blueish green eyes and freckles and I had a huge crush on him all throughout 3rd grade and my mom told me she thinks that he liked me too but I never found out if that was true or not because he moved during the summer we were going into 4th grade
11 ReplyI was never the type to fall in love I was a party person then i ended up fallin in love I ended up wanting to forget everything that has to do with her (for personal reason) now I'm back to my old habits but ay at least no one gets hurt
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+1 yYes because I have a child with her so I could never get any space from her.
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With her it's difficult. The marriage didn't end well so I went through a lot of pain seeing her when I was dropping our child off or picking him up.
She's a person who's not very nice and I need to stay away from her for my own mental health.
We were together a really long time so it really messes with my head to see her.
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7.2K opinions shared on Relationships topic. I remember my first crush. She sat behind me in homeroom in the 8th grade. The next year she went to another school and UI never saw her again until after I graduated from high school. I remember my first love too. I was 16.
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+1 yYes, I remember my first love... from high school. Maybe it's a sign of getting older, but I sometimes think back to those younger days and remember who I was and the people I knew then.
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+1 yIn name and basic premise of a specific few events only, the rest fades, and I only recall those few things if reminded, I don't actively think about exes, or any past trauma for that matter.
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+1 yI’ve only had one, but yes. Especially because we only got separated from her passing away.
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+1 yWell not really. I think it was a girl called Emily from Primary school. But it was one sided anyway.
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+1 yMy first love, my first secret crush was when I was 8 and I was smitten with a girl in my standard 4 class Debra, a really pretty scottish girl.
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+1 yGood question. Such good a mushy replies from the blues.
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+1 yI still do and I always will to. She was a big part of me leaving teen life behind and welcoming in adulthood
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+1 yI remember her name but I can't remember what she looked like.. at all . I think she was blonde,
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+1 yI remember my first two. The first one didn't really count much cuz I was in likt the 4th grade lol
10 Reply My first kiss, and first crush was one girl. My first love was another and I remember them yes.
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+1 yYeah, I don't think I'll forget her unless I get amnesia or Alzheimer's, in which case I'd want to be dead anyway
10 Reply Yeah we do. It was lust at first sight. Her personality sealed the deal.
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+1 yAbsolutely. This is our first taste of love outside our familiy.
10 ReplyHer name was Sara, i remember our first kiss was heaven, talking about this makes me kind of miss her..
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+1 yYes and i will never forget my first love. Never ever. But now i will looking for love so i can love more then her.
10 ReplyYeah, I still think she is an amazing person and wish her the very best in life.
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+1 yCami she was from Argentina a shutterbug and loved doggystyle I’ll remember her for the rest of my life
10 ReplyYes my first love always start morning and ended same day in night...
Repeat next day. 😂10 Reply
Anonymous(18-24)+1 yYes. My cousin and i were lovers. We used to practice kissing and masturbate together talking about boys we liked. We are both happily married with kids to guys now.
01 Reply966 opinions shared on Relationships topic. Yeah... forgot her name... and her face is blurred, but I remember the feeling
10 Reply1.8K opinions shared on Relationships topic. I always remember that first love of mine who didn't deny having been with me 🙄
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+1 yYes I think they do. Unfortunately sometimes not for the love, but the first heartbreak that followed.
10 ReplyWould you forget putting your hand on a girl's breast and French kissing her in a church van?
00 ReplyYes for sure, you never forget losing it with her, so good ❤
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+1 yYes, 100%. It's embarrassing of course, but yes. I was 12.
10 ReplyDepends on how good their memory is. I would say that usually people remember firsts.
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+1 yYes, I remember my first love after 45 years.
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Yes.
Anonymous(30-35)+1 yI wish I was someone’s love.
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Opinion Owner+1 yI highly doubt it, but thanks.
Opinion Owner+1 yU don’t think u are?
+1 yIf they Short term memory loss then they will. But nah I remember every Bitch I Fuck.
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Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 yIf he was black , I bet you remember. Might walk funny for a week too.
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Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 yI'll let you know if I ever have a first love. 🤣
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ok 😂
+1 yTry to move forward never think your past
11 Reply315 opinions shared on Relationships topic. I'll never forget whatshername.
10 ReplyI know I do and I considered it a great memory.
10 Reply1K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Yes, and all the others.
10 Reply2.5K opinions shared on Relationships topic. I sure do and I often wonder about her
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+1 yi never have first love
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+1 yI think everyone remembers their first everything
10 ReplyI do.. Cindy, Wayland, Mass. 1970.
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Just tell me that u are now married to her , Sir.
+1 yAlway!!
Still think of her!!!10 ReplyI do, boy was I dumb to fall for her.
20 ReplyYes, heartbreak stay with you.
10 Reply375 opinions shared on Relationships topic. Of course.
10 ReplyYes. And it taught me a lot about female nature.
10 Reply3K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Yeah. But I'll never forget my second either
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+1 yOf course. We aren't animals
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+1 yYes yes
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+1 yYes I do
10 Reply Of course!!!
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