What are the signs someone loves you?

[Anonymous]

[NZGirl07]

I think a main way I recognise love is when someone puts your needs before their own. As humans I think we constantly look out for ourselves, and if you like someone it doesn't mean you will necessarily make sacrifices for them. But when love comes into play, it seems that's when people start putting the other person's needs above them. Doing things for them even if you're tired and need rest, making sure they're fed even if you aren't, things like that. When my boyfriend and I started dating he got sick and I said I wish I could be sick instead of him. That really shocked him, but when we fell in love he felt exactly the same.

[Sour-rose]

Why it's very simple...

You don't. :) there are no signs they love you. They could be putting up with your shit for now but got a bish on the side. But to your eyes, she loves you so funkin' much. :)

[Jamie05rhs]

My opinion is that when someone loves you, they probably don't even completely know for sure at first. They might have a feeling, but that feeling needs to be solidified by the official conception of an actual relationship. (Please be advised I'm not talking about pregnancy here.)

So they're confused; and you're probably also confused. It's going to take an honest conversation to really get anywhere.

[Jamie05rhs]

Thanks for the MHO!

[BarryLiverstone]

Regarding love I wouldn’t be relying on signs, instead would be relying on actions. If someone loves you their actions will show how much. Do they keep their promises, take care of your needs, give you attention, spend quality time, give positive feedback…

[UpdateGloomyNights_]

👍💯😃

[YungBahlr]

A person can say I love you a million times and never mean it, but their actions can usually be a deadline give away: selflessness being the primary clue.


Do they go out their way to do something specifically because they know it’s important to you? Do they consider your feelings in their daily choices? How do they react when someone treats you poorly or insults you? Are they accountable and change when they themselves treat you poorly? Do they feel inclined to introduce you to other people they love or care about?


Things like this are the biggest signs in my opinion. Hope that helps. 👍🏻

[YungBahlr]

I forgot to mention. This is not to say someone in love is 100% perfect to you all the time. Mistakes definitely can and will be made, but it’s a constant effort to do things like this that shows love.

[ChillaxingLove]

The signs are: they are selfless when it comes to you. Anyone who says there is no signs for love, don’t know what love truly is. There’s is always proof of love, it’s not a feeling. Love is a choice made not a feeling. Feelings can go away and are fickle

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

They try to maintain contact with you anyhow. If they are not able to express their feelings, they try it in different ways, but they try.

[Adronicus]

The greatest sign is how much they're willing to sacrifice for you, perceived through action, not words.

[Marianna546]

exacly sacrifice is the most evident sign

[UpdateGloomyNights_]

👍👍😃💯

[Jltakk]

If they are willing to sacrifice for you. Its not easy to do this, but thats what separates one from the herd. This also has to be done through actions and not just sweet words.

[sheikalana]

They are consistent. They care for you. They are affectionate. So on and so for.

[Juxtapose]

They are by my side even when it is very convenient and socially acceptable to betray me.

When the chips are down that's when people's true colors come out.

[HopefulGuy94]

Lol never ever happened to me but we should ask this to the "someone" who likes us though , how are we supposed to know this?

[serious]

I have no idea. However, I am sure there are plenty of signs to know the same.

[flirtatiousgirl]

If love is not taken from the family, there is a great loss. There is a trust problem with people. That's why I focus on interest, not love. Also, men pretend to be in love and go to other girls after taking advantage of your vagina.

[RandomGuy1030]

True true lol

[Tina19]

One can never know for sure people fall put of love as well

[Okaydtguug]

Staring
The do you favours
They treat you well
They approach you

[Rebecka33]

I would think they would want to spend as much time as they could with you.

[SeekingVirginWife]

That he is saving himself for marriage, and want's to marry you.

[ChrisMike1919]

I'll be damn if I know...

[Fuentes]

I only hit her one time then dismiss

[UpdateGloomyNights_]

I've never met a man who truly loves me