Is it ok to meet guys when I am engaged?

[Anonymous]

[Hürrem]

Meet guys for what purpose? For dating? No its not okay. You should not get engaged in the first place if you have the urge or feel the need to meet guys.

[Emerald55346]

Ya it’s okay to be friends anything more is considered cheating obviously

[D_Bone_Steak]

WTF? Like trying to shit on marriage before the married part. Why are you engaged if you want to keep shopping?

[slatyb]

Don't you meet them all the time? There are a lot of them. How could you go through life without meeting men?

[Texasgal95]

Probably not don’t want to lead anybody onto I guess it also depends on your relationship with that person and friend in me or maybe it’s kind of a friend just be

[Sam_25]

She is not happy in engagement that's y meeting new guys.

[Texasgal95]

Then she needs to end the engagement

[Sam_25]

Darling she can't...

[Sixgunsound]

@Sam_25 why not?

[sheikalana]

You will always meet people even after getting married. Is your intentions that might be an issue.

[Blackcosmo]

You can have friends of the opposite gender because there's nothing wrong with that as long as it's not sexual since you're engaged.

[Sixgunsound]

The question you should be asking is why do you feel like you need to meet guys if you are engaged?

[Anonymous]

Meet them how? Like for a business deal? Or meeting them as in you’re attracted to them?

[Asker]

just a casual meet up and to make friends make connections

[Opinion Owner]

Well if it’s something you’re hiding for your fiancé then I think yes it’s wrong. Just imagine how that would make you feel if your fiancé was doing that. I think you’ll have your answer I’d you answer that question if he was doing that.

[Asker]

why is it wrong to make connections or friends when ur engaged tho

[Asker]

Im ok w him like meeting other people also as long as he isn't hiding things from me

[Opinion Owner]

So he knows about you doing things like this? Why can’t he go w you to meet these people? These people, I’m assuming you sort of know them some how?

[Asker]

I don't know these people but like I am getting to know these people?

[Opinion Owner]

Then I think it would be upsetting to your partner. I wouldn’t like the idea of my fiancé out meeting random men. While she may be 100% loyal, these men may have other intentions. Not to mention what if one of them tries to do something to you physically. If you said meeting people in general I may think of it a little different, that would include both men and women, but the fact that you said guys in general makes my brain start to wonder. Why men? Why the needed attention? Something going on there.

[Asker]

yea so its not just men, but both men and women

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah your question implies that you’re just meeting men.

[midnightmoon05]

She doesn’t deserve to be with the fiancé since she wants to hang out with some dudes behind his back.

[Opinion Owner]

@midnightmoon05 i kind of thought the same as far as meeting men. Maybe marriage should wait.

[TacosRAwesome]

Depends on the context. But if you mean meet new guys, maybe you shouldn't be engaged.

[Danny718718]

To be honest you're headed for divorce before you need to get married

[Iron_Man]

Give your boyfriend your engagement ring back your not ready to be married

[NYlatefun]

Lol meet them yes, but nothing else, would your fiancée be ok with it?

[spartan55]

Is it okay for your fiance to meet girls?

[Asker]

Ya with my knowledge

[spartan55]

Yeah right.

[midnightmoon05]

Are you telling him you are going to meet some dudes? Or you are planning to ask here to feel better about not telling him… you should not be with him if you are planning to go hang out with other guys behind his back.

[spartan55]

@midnightmoon05
Yep, I bet that's what she is up to. So gross.

[midnightmoon05]

You should ask your partner.

[Snsl153]

It depends on why you want to meet them.

[1GoldTwins]

Not if you're going to flirt with them

[Mikeysoda]

What's the point if you found a person already?

[JustinTheGreat]

Meet guys in what context? 🤔

[BarryLiverstone]

You can meet people anytime

[In_Trance]

Why would you bother?

[moonpie89]

Definitely not

[Asker]

How to make platonic friends w the opposite gender then?

[midnightmoon05]

Why are you not asking your fiancé this question? Are you hiding it from him?

[spartan55]

@asker
No guy wants to be your 'friend', especially if you are engaged. It's so obvious what you are doing.

[Anonymous]

Of course, it is.

[dudeinohio]

No way

[flirtatiousgirl]

Nope

[clemdenim]

Anytime