Does it matter how long?

[DanniOnnaNimbus]

Do You feel its right for people to still act single even though they made it official with you? Say your in a relationship but its only been 3-5 months. I feel once we make it official being boyfriend and girlfriend that's it.. It doesn't matter if we only been official for 3-5 months. Do you feel once we reach a certain time limit then you take it seriously? Do I have to make it to at least 10 months to be known as your girl?

I know having a honest relationship seems unattainable nowadays with people getting bored or want to keep they options open. Still, if I make my intentions of a serious relationship clear and you do too. Whats the issue?

[TommyMountainFigure]

I wouldn't do anything to cause my girlfriend to worry because I have respect for her and I trust her.. I expect and receive the same thing back..

This is why we get on so well.

[DanniOnnaNimbus]

That's beautiful and I strive for a relationship like that. I just dont like how people crave attention online but be in a relationship. Doesn't matter if its brand new or old.

[TommyMountainFigure]

Thank you and I hope you find what you're looking for too.

[TommyMountainFigure]

Thank you for choosing my answer.

[Guy13]

6 months for me…

[Guy13]

If one can not be on good Behavior then not 6 or 60 years either. And does not know, care, and refuses to understand insecurity and his/her role in it THEN will never improve 🤷🏻‍♂️ 🤷🏻‍♂️🤷🏻‍♂️

[DanniOnnaNimbus]

U gave me something to think about. I was curious and when I asked family they even said 3-5 months isn't something to boast about. They said at least make it a year, then you have your foot in the door. I dont think it matters.. plus its not like i assumed a relationship. We are in one. Thank you✨

[IJhonnyI]

A relationship once started should be givin 100 100 never 50 50 cause then y'all are meeting half way when instead you both should give your 100 percent if you really care to begin with

[In_Trance]

You do the others what you want done to you.
It's not about the length of time it's about the feeling.

[DanniOnnaNimbus]

But how do I show him or anybody in general what I want without coming off as "Demanding or controlling". I want you to take something we both want as serious, serious?

[In_Trance]

You show him through your own actions

[Joenavy22]

Honestly if you truly want to be with someone then you should show it from the second y'all make it official. A relationship should not be 90/10 effort it should be 50/50

[NathanDavis]

it should not take this long...

[Avicenna]

That’s Not ok