IF you are not getting what you want out of the relationship then end it. You let your feelings be known and he seem like he doesn't give a shit about you. I mean if they did have kids together then I would understand that they need to text with each other as far as the kids go. But in this case they don't have kids. I never texted with an ex girlfriends once I was over it with her. So it sounds like he is putting her in front of you feelings. I mean if I was just hooking up with a girl I would not care how she felt about my texting. But if I was in a serious relationship with her and she told me its making her feel very uncomfortable and I did it any way... well then obviously it would be cause I did not value the relationship as much as she did.
If its important to you then its important to you, if your up crying about it then it sounds like your not happy in the relationship and you need to leave him. I would totally understand your being upset, I would not like it if a women was doing that to me.
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if he hides it it is either to protect your irrational fealings or it is to protecrlt himself from your very rational and justified mistrust. you habe to honestly answer yourself the question is he trust worthy? if the answer is no then you know what to do.
Sounds pathetic how you’re trying so hard to be with someone who don’t give a F about your feelings. If he had to hide it he must be doing something bad
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The easiest option is to leave him because they are sorting something or and possibly hooking up. If everything you said is the truth and not just your perspective. Then you should remove him from your life before you catch them together. If you do need something like that though then Goodluck it's no Bueno 😬
He is not your boyfriend then.
So what are you going to do with this?
That's cheating
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