Attachment styles?

[Anonymous]

What's your thoughts about a relationship between an anxious attachment style person and an avoidant attachment style person... specifically where the guy is the anxious person and the girl is the avoidant person

[Anonymous]

Sounds like me! To be honest as an avoidance person just have to break the ice initially, once the first conversation is out the way, plain sailing. I avoid because I don’t know where I stand and don’t like the unknown. With any luck she might be the same and now you know how to resolve it

[Asker]

I was dating an avoidant girl and now post breakup is so confusing at times. She'll hmu a bunch of times, then go silent.. it's like a pattern..

[Opinion Owner]

Hmu?

[Asker]

Hmu... *hit me up*

[Opinion Owner]

Sounds like she keeps popping back because she wants more and doesn’t know how you feel so bottles it and goes dark

[Asker]

She's really smart though. She should easily know I want her back. I've already asked to hangout