What personality traits bother you?

[Turgenyev]

[POSSY_HUNTER]

1. Disrespectful

2. Pessimistic

3. Finicky

4. Coward

5. Defiant

6. Subjective

7. Rebellious

8. Undeserving

9. Unjust

10. Illogical

11. Fascist

12. Deceitful

13. Sullen

14. Prodigal

15. Discourteous

16. Loud

17. Radical

18. Shy

19. Bashful

20. Timid

21. Inattentive

22. Late

23. Tardy

24. Treacherous

25. Slow

26. Bothersome

27. Inadequate

28. Inconsiderate

29. thoughtless

30. Erring

31. Messy

32. Brooding

33. Ridiculous

34. Stringent

35. Worthless

36. Harebrained

37. Privy

38. Preposterous

39. Ludicrous

40. Austere

41. Impulsive

42. Aggressive

43. Unruly

44. Inquisitive

45. Prying

46. Insecure

47. Pompous

48. Vulgar

49. Strict

50. Arrogant

51. Sarcastic

52. Regimental

53. Outdated

54. Redundant

55. Superfluous

56. Extra

57. Unproductive

58. Complicated

59. Stagnant

60. Slothful

61. Boorish

62. Threatened

63. Contrite

64. Guilt-ridden

65. Stern

66. Threatening

67. Unreliable

68. Facetious

69. Overachieving

70. Indiscreet

71. Idle

72. Ungrateful

73. Distressful

74. Erratic

75. Uncaring

76. Disinterested

77. Unthinking

78. Short-sighted

79. Imbecile

80. Sophomoric

81. Infantile

82. Insulting

83. Pitiable

84. Stingy

85. Annoying

86. Convoluted

87. Grandiose

88. Despicable

89. Haughty

90. Impudent

91. Overconfident

92. Unethical

93. Turgid

94. Inflated

95. Possessive

96. Selfish

97. Oppressing

98. Procrastinator

99. Sloth

100. Obstinate

101. Rash

102. Unwise

103. Spaced-out

104. Deserter

105. Audacious

106. Self-pitying

107. Hideous

108. Lazy

109. Defector

110. Melancholic

111. Boring

112. Traitor

113. Untidy

114. Uncultured

115. Greedy

116. Foolhardy

117. Covetous

118. Conspiring

119. Listless

120. Dishonest

121. Defenseless

122. Proud

123. Desperate

124. Judgmental

125. Rumor-monger

126. Deplorable

127. Terrible

128. Vulnerable

129. War-monger

130. Silly

131. Addicted

132. Mad

133. Asinine

134. Cunning

135. Unpardonable

136. Awful

137. Naïve

138. Idiotic

139. Dense

140. Imploring

141. Nutty

142. Aimless

143. Helpless

144. Reckless

145. Misinformed

146. Inexperienced

147. Unsophisticated

148. Daredevil

149. Illiterate

150. Compulsive

151. Nonchalant

152. Superficial

153. Unschooled

154. Sly

155. Bossy

156. Gossiper

157. Capricious

158. Unbearable

159. Sneaky

160. Humorless

161. Snooping

162. Cocky

163. Smartaleck

164. Unappreciative

165. Confrontational

166. Unpredictable

167. Unlikable

168. Ill-mannered

169. Tactless

170. Mechanical

171. Thievish

172. Racist

173. Obnoxious

174. Insensitive

175. Uncaring

176. Self-righteous

177. Repetitive

178. Ingrate

179. Manipulative

180. Quarrelsome

181. Foolish

182. Snooty

183. Domineering

184. High-handed

185. Argumentative

186. Defensive

187. Hoity-toity

188. Officious

189. Forgetful

190. Vindictive

191. Spiteful

192. Malicious

193. Brutal

194. Critical

195. Irresponsible

196. Surly

197. Bureaucratic

198. Underachieving

199. Self-important

200. Inefficient

201. Deficient

202. Shameful

203. Disgraceful

204. Lacking

205. Dishonorable

206. Guilt-stricken

207. Overreacting

208. Overbearing

209. Rude

210. Envious

211. Obsessive

212. Monotonous

213. Fearful

214. Libidinous

215. Mannerless

216. Paranoid

217. Antisocial

218. Impolite

219. Imperious

220. Careless

221. Disturbed

222. Disloyal

223. Nasty

224. Malignant

225. Ignorant

226. Difficult

227. Discouraging

228. Disorganized

229. Disruptive

230. Hostile

231. Abusive

232. Resentful

233. Perplexing

234. One-sided

235. Opportunistic

236. Vain

237. Tasteless

238. Impatient

239. Intolerant

240. Jealous

241. Neglectful

242. Phlegmatic

243. Repressed

244. Miserable

245. Prejudiced

246. Snobbish

247. Unfriendly

248. Shallow

249. Violent

250. Self-centered

251. Uncooperative

252. Scornful

253. Placid

254. Liar

255. Irritable

256. Irate

257. Moody

258. Hasty

259. Dependent

260. Petty

261. Coarse

262. Bawd

263. Self-harming

264. Uneducated

265. Unglamorous

266. Unbecoming

267. Indecent

268. Wasteful

269. Conceited

270. Offensive

271. Uneconomical

272. Uncivilized

273. Lewd

274. Contemptible

275. Untruthful

276. Submissive

277. Docile

278. Uncouth

279. Unapologetic

280. Egocentric

281. Self-indulgent

282. Conniving

283. Scheming

284. Vile

285. Clingy

286. Show-off

287. Braggart

288. Unchaste

289. Unstable

290. Lascivious

291. Machiavellian

292. Distant

293. Subservient

294. Egoistic

295. Intimidating

296. Temperamental

297. Banal

298. Repulsive

299. Crass

300. Boastful

301. Frugal

302. Obtuse

303. Incompetent

304. Unskilled

305. Unnerving

306. Self-conscious

307. Mean

308. Weak

309. Wicked

310. Power-hungry

311. Inept

312. Hurtful

313. Outrageous

314. Melodramatic

315. Dismissive

316. Frivolous

317. Vengeful

318. Cold

319. Fanatical

320. Offhand

321. Corrupt

322. Awkward

323. Discomfited

324. Fraudster

325. Flippant

326. Fraudulent

327. Demanding

328. Nagging

329. Clumsy

330. Devious

331. Cruel

332. Bull-headed

333. Unreasonable

334. Impractical

335. Blasphemous

336. Unremarkable

337. Deceptive

338. Crooked

339. Crude

340. Gloomy

341. Foul-mouthed

342. Enervated

343. Hateful

344. Presumptuous

345. Spoilsport

346. Cynical

347. Dubious

348. Contemptuous

349. Evil

350. Meddlesome

351. Irreverent

352. Intrusive

353. Nosy

354. Condescending

355. Disdainful

356. Derisive

357. Demeaning

358. Crabby

359. Gnarly

360. Invasive

361. Hypocrite

362. Chauvinist

363. Patronizing

364. Slovenly

365. Pushy

366. Panicky

367. Passive

368. Ruthless

369. Bigot

370. Party-pooper

371. Withdrawn

372. Petulant

373. Over-critical

374. Discriminatory

375. Snappy

376. Huffy

377. Misleading

378. Aloof

379. Doubtful

380. Distrustful

381. Indifferent

382. Tense

383. Ambiguous

384. Uncertain

385. Interfering

386. Anxious

387. Frightful

388. Quick-tempered

389. Indolent

390. Sluggish

391. Apathetic

392. Nervous

393. Impetuous

394. Hot-headed

395. Rigid

396. Inhibited

397. Alcoholic

398. Controlling

399. Insistent

400. Killjoy

401. Cranky

402. Eccentric

403. Odd

404. Grumpy

405. Grouchy

406. Vicious

407. Stubborn

408. Mischievous

409. Immature

410. Childish

411. Confused

412. Blunt

413. Antagonistic

414. Disbelieving

415. Pretentious

416. Perverse

417. Dull

418. Callous

419. Belligerent

420. Indiscriminate

421. Condemnatory

422. Predatory

423. Harsh

424 . Hesitant

425. Gullible

426. Irrational

427. Fussy

428. Unforgiving

429. Detached

430. Pathetic

431. Wallowing

432. Materialistic

433. Unsatisfied

434. Grim

435. Abrasive

436. Cantankerous

437. Extravagant

438. Unrealistic

439. Amoral

440. Dominating

441. Inflexible

442. Narrow-minded

443. Barbaric

444. Meek

445. Bland

446. Complaintive

447. Undiplomatic

448. Rowdy

449. Boisterous

450. Sordid

451. Uncharitable

452. Unruly

453. Plodding

454. Sloppy

455. Obscure

456. Sketchy

457. Spoiled

458. Whiny

459. Imitative

460. Impressionistic

461. Slack

462. Worrywart

463. Copycat

464. Workaholic

465. Impersonal

466. Harried

467. Crafty

468. Disingenuous

469. Inert

470. Agitated

471. Stealthy

472. Astute

473. Debauched

474. Adamant

475. Dispiriting

476. Decadent

477. Discouraging

478. Insincere

479. Disconcerting

480. Dissolute

481. Escapist

482. Languid

483. Lethargic

484. Exaggerated

485. Showy

486. Profane

487. Nuisance

488. Sacrilegious

489. Impious

490. Heretical

491. Scandalous

492. Appalling

493. Disreputable

494. Backbiter

495. Slandering

496. Tale-bearing

497. Bitter

498. Narcissistic

499. Self-absorbed

500. Steely

501. Strong-willed

502. Morbid

503. Morose

504. Sinister

505. Nihilistic

506. Reactionary

507. Manic

508. Provocative

509. Unresponsive

510. Incongruous

511. Inappropriate

512. Inapt

513. Unfit

514. Unsuitable

515. Freak

516. Creepy

517. Deviant

518. Abnormal

519. Superstitious

520. Frenzied

521. Overexcited

522. Irascible

523. Testy

524. Provoking

525. Infuriating

526. Glum

527. Sadistic

528. Unrepentant

529. Sedentary

530. Inactive

531. Dormant

532. Stupid

[Yeetboi__]

FIrst comment... but WOW

[Jayjay1234567890]

I guess you'r not into women..

[ninaneedshelp]

woah lol

[Blackcosmo]

Wow I thought it would go on forever. Gosh!

[ThoseCognacEyes]

The list is quite long but some examples that come to mind:


Judgmental
Negative at all times
Dishonest
Rigid
Selfish
Rude
Lack of sympathy for others
Insensitive
Self centered at all times
Reckless
Opinionated in a provoking way
Bossy
Arrogant
Greedy
Insecure in a toxic way (think of people who are envious of your success so they try to bring you down by any means necessary)
Sneaky
Disloyal
Unprincipled (I respect people who have some sort of a code that they live by, even if I fully oppose their code)
Lazy
Envious
Absolutist (everything to them is one of two extremes, while the reality of life is almost never that)
Unapologetic (when they wrong people)


The list could be longer but these are just off the top of my head

[PrettyPriya]

Bad manners. I can't stand that. There is nothing more than I hate than someone that has bad manners. I see it in both genders. It is kind of a broad thing to dislike. Bad manners can mean so many different things, down to simply being a rude person.

That is the worst to me. Someone that just can't help but be rude. There is just no need to be rude when you can put on a smile or not say anything at all. I have had some instances when dating that I just couldn't believe how rude the person was.

I thought to myself, why not look at this as it isn't a love connection, enjoy the night and go your separate ways without having to make the other person feel like you have wasted their time.

Just no need for that sort of behaviour and something that drives me nuts.

[laurieluvsit]

High Mindedness and conceit... ever heard the word 'puke'?

[bean2k21]

People who sign their emails

"With gratitude,

[Insert Name Here]

People who do as they're told just to prove that you have no business telling them what to do

People who say "Hey Team!" in an instant message

When I'm not on their team

[FilmGuy93]

I don't know why so many people are like this, but it really bothers me. I can't stand people who walk around with that whole "you don't know me" chip on their shoulders. It's just a really stupid, arrogant, stubborn, self-defeating perspective to have. You don't live some exotic, special life that no one could relate to without knowing your journey. You're a person and people tend to be a lot like other people.

[Wubs3000]

Talking about their personality and blaming factors in their life acting like they can't control it. Like blaming them being an asshole on mental problems or like adhd or smth. Not quite this but there have been too many times where my sister goes, "so you know that thing I do all the time where I (x)" like no I don't know what you are talking about. I love her but stuff like that is so so so annoying

[BHooper]

The list is way too long but I will mention a few I absolutely despise:

• Stubbornness (try win an argument against someone with this trait. You could tell them literal facts and they'd refuse to believe it.)
• Hypocrisy (again it's just so irritating).
• People who do double standards (its sort of a miz between the two above.)

[HippieVeganJewslim]

Many people are stubborn.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

People who reprimand all the time or naggers especially those who turns out to be hypocrites. Two of my cousins are like that and they thought they could abuse me because I'm The Silent One until I diss them off. They are even younger than me. Also those younger people who believes they are mature but in reality they are far from it. You know those posh kids who act like stereotypical adults.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Those type of people brings out the rebelliousness in me.

[TrueConfection]

Virtue signalling

Lying

Fake laugh, fake smile

Selfishness

Lack of consideration

Manipulation

Self righteousness

Laziness

[MCheetah]

- Shallowness
- Superficiality
- Willful ignorance/stupidity
- Disrespect/rudeness (for no reason)
- Arrogance/confidence/conceit/cockiness (the one I hate the most)

[Aerissa_Jade]

Whenever a guy gets in the face of another guy and wants to fight them... especially if it is over me. I'd rather he be more kind and assertive to resolve issues.

[MTC29]

Indecision. For God's sake, make up your mind, one way or the other.

Luckily, my own SO has no issue with this, but other women are not so straightforward.

[mandyfire98]

Arrogance, someone who's controlling, insecurity, close minded people, someone who is completely self-centered.

[1GoldTwins]

People who whine, ask for advice, you give them advice, they ignore the advice and whine again like nothing happened.

[Sorrento-Sun]

Arrogant.

In the sense that they look down on people less fortunate than themselves and talk down to people

[ElementoP]

A serious lack in sense of humor. People who can't take a joke, no matter how bad, are a major buzzkill

[Ευδεμονια]

I think in general I’m passed by arrogant, indifferent and low moral people.

[whereismyjohnny]

Immaturity, arrogance, being judgmental/hateful and disrespectful.

[Guy13]

Loud mouth, low values, and generally hateful.

[MikeInHawaii]

Top of the f the list: Bitchiness! I don’t care if she looks like Barbara Eden in her prime if she’s a bitch.

[Gangactivities911]

Women who aren’t straightforward. Women who actively avoid u while still crushing non u especially when they get with other girls in the meantime

[Freyke]

Manipulators or people who are sneaky behind the back

[loveslongnails]

I'm not fond of narcissists, trumpers, radicals without reason, loud or really aggressive people.

[Luopio27]

Bad manners, crime, lying, neglecting, gossip and attempts to put others down to put him/herself above humanity.

[maximumpower]

Clingy vine, obsessive, lying and fiscally irresponsible immediately come to mind.
The list goes on and on.

[GutsNCascaBerserking]

Rudeness, Selfishness, Lack of empathy/sympathy.
Things like that.

[art84]

Someone who knows is always angry or in a bad mood.

[SpaceGalaxy]

Ones who would get angry at you just because you do not approve of something they said or believe

[Beardedman1996]

Excessive bratty ness in a negative way, pessimism and narcissistic tendencies

[Anonymous]

Aside from the most obvious possible, I hate it when guys are avoidant. It makes everything way harder than it should be, just be straightforward ffs

[Anonymous]

Narcissistic

Religious

Superstitious

Feminist

Mgtow

Pseudo Intellectual ( dunning Kruger )

Or any kind of extremist.

[Imyour_steph]

The one who victimize themselves all the time agh the worst.

[courtney06]

Poor communication and easily irritated.

[NZGirl07]

Loudness, arrogance, being bossy, and being fake.

[20yearsolder]

Someone that acts like they know everything

[Blackcosmo]

Arrogance, disrespect, and selfishness.

[davner]

anger issues. tendency to give up fast.

[Literalbillionaire17]

The person that can somehow relate to everything

[EarthRealm]

Empathy Guilt Remorse
Entitlement

[collie22]

braggarts and bully's annoy me

[LavLavLuv]

passive agressive

[Anonymous]

Religious, bigoted, political.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Whiny, rude and entitled personnelity.

[Zolly99999]

Lying , deception, manipulation

[Anonymous]

When they jump to conclusions

[MrTaboo]

Girls with attitude, valley girls, stuck up snobs.

[Hjkkjjm]

Can you write comment about my question

[tweety487]

Someone who’s selfish and has no conscience

[Marshymallow]

Ignorant and goofy

[alice55]

hypocrisy

[scarletssecret]

Cockiness

[Ironic_Method]

... most of them.

[Kkoalalita]

I’ll say pettiness

[NishantPu]

Tik tok girls 😂

[BLP11520]

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