How do I say I have feelings for you?

[katestar]

How to win my guy friend's heart

[Putriz]

The most effective way is “I love you, go out with me please”.

[katestar]

The question is how can I do that?

[Putriz]

If it was me, I would just invite him to go somewhere, then just say it when the date ends. For me is pretty simple. Some people may have a bit of difficulties, but I usually just straight up tell them.

[katestar]

Like a date? As Like a friend date?

[Putriz]

Well, it may or may not be a friend date after you confess. Don’t you invite friends to do some things together from time to time? Just ask him if he wants to visit you or go somewhere to have some fun, then at the end you just tell him. I don’t see how that is difficult.

[katestar]

There is one problem. He said that he can't date me and he can't marry me. He wants to be friends with me. He turned me down.

[Putriz]

Then why do you want to confess to him? If he said he doesn’t want you then why even bother?

[katestar]

I have to figure this out why he turned me down. That's why I have to go to him. Let him explain why he turned me down.

[Putriz]

Maybe he doesn’t love you? Anyways, I’d do everything I’ve said I would but change “I love your please go out with me” to “I love you, could you please explain why you turned me down?”

[katestar]

That's what I'm thinking about. Skip the "I love you" and say that to him.

[Putriz]

But wasn’t the whole point for you to confess to him?

[katestar]

Or maybe I will say. "I like you as a friend. Not as a boyfriend"

[Putriz]

Wait, do you want to date him or not?

[katestar]

Yes. I do want to date my guy friend.

[Putriz]

Then why tf don’t you want to confess to him?

[katestar]

Because I'm scared of telling him. It's been 4 years since I last saw him.

[Putriz]

Girl, you are confusing me with all of these.

[katestar]

Sorry about that. I do want to date my guy friend. Yes.

[Putriz]

THEN WHY TF YOU WANT TO TELL HIM YOU LIKE HIM AS A FRIEND