Be honest, Have you ever had ‘cheating on your mind’ in a relationship ever?

[Still-alive]

Im not asking if you actually cheated just if it ever crossed your mind even once for a fleeting moment perhaps.

Yes it did cross my mind at least once.

No i can honestly say i never had thoughts if cheating ever

I may have i just can't recall

I've never been in a relationship yet

[Dazed0N0Confused]

Honestly, it depends on your definition of "cheating".

I've thought someone other than my SO to be attractive, which, to one of my exs constituted cheating, to which I responded "Then I've cheated on you with George Clooney, Jon Stewart, Brad Pitt, Johnny Depp, Robert Downey Jr, your best friend & a shit ton of women".

I've never cheated or even thought about cheating on my past or present partner (s). If I'm with you, I'm with YOU & I expect the same.

No, I don't expect you to not take that second look at the sexy girl in the daisy duke shorts & what just covers her areola that I'm also staring at. No, I don't expect you to not think Angelina Jolie, or whoever, is sexy. I also don't expect you to decline the drink that you're being sent over from whoever that chick is or thank her & talk a little. But if you start getting handsy we're going to have problems.

Having been cheated on before, it's not a pleasant taste & I could never do that to someone else.

[Idkiiii]

Jesus finally. You can't expect someone to not be attracted to others, finally someone who gets it. Aslong as there is trust, you're good to have opposite gender friends, just don't get handsy and we're good.

You get it, you're confident. Good for you!!

[BUTIMRIGHTTHO]

no way you're 26

[CrazyGirl2]

No, absolutely not! I have never thought about actually cheating on anyone…. Obviously I’ve had sexual fantasies during masturbation and during sex, about situations that did not include my boyfriend. But NEVER ONCE have I actually seriously thought about cheating on anyone whom I was in a sexual relationship with! (Even if we haven’t yet had “the conversation” about whether we are committed yet or not!)
Great question, its not often I see a question I haven’t seen before, or even in a while. So it really is a pleasure to answer a question like this.

[Still-alive]

Well of course. i always gotta think of stuff thats different from the norm. thanks babe :*

[CrazyGirl2]

You are so welcome, sweetie 😘 💋 🤗

[Idkiiii]

Honestly, we all have these thoughts and fantasies. I think it's pretty normal.

[CrazyGirl2]

@Idkiiii Yes I completely agree. I mean I have SOME friends who don’t like talking about that stuff, but most of us are pretty open about talking about sexuality, and everyone I know has fantasies like that.

[Idkiiii]

Yeah I believe it doesn't matter to discuss sexual topics. I have female friends who tell me nearly everything and I honestly don't really care that much. Everyone has sexual thoughts and everyone has sex. A decent person won't judge you for discussing or bringing it up.

[CrazyGirl2]

@Idkiiii Well obviously it depends on context, I mean clearly it would be extremely rude to simply walk up to a stranger and just start talking about your sexual fantasies, or talking about anything sexual, generally speaking! But certainly amongst a group of friends where we all consent to that sort of discussion…. Obviously there is nothing wrong with that! So while I agree with you in principal, I do think it’s important to make sure that everyone is okay with talking about sex and sexuality before beginning THAT kind of conversation.

[SolitarySolace]

After having been cheated on by all 4 of my ex girlfriends, and knowing how it feels. No, I’ve never even considered cheating. Although I haven’t been in a relationship for almost 8 years now. The last relationship I was in, I was 19 when we broke up. I haven’t had a partner for almost the entirety of my 20s. I say almost because I still have 5 more years until I’m 30 (almost 4 because I’ll be 26 in September) so even if I wanted to attempt cheating I haven’t been able to. Can’t cheat if you’re single.

[FilmGuy93]

No, because cheating is about emotional intimacy, to me. My girlfriends can fuck whoever they want, as long as they're safe about it and make me their emotional priority. I'm not the kind of person who sees my partner having sex with other people as cheating. I've thought about fucking other women (although I've never acted on it, without my partners' expressed permission), but I've never wanted that emotional connection with another woman.

[ShaTTeredMasterpeace]

Nah. Like I've said before, it takes me a while to have genuine feelings for people. I do not fall easily. But I do fall hard so when I like you, it's just you. I don't even really see anyone else. So cheating never crosses my mind. Sadly, I've been cheated on before. It's not fun.

[MotleyT5]

Of course I have. It's only natural for anyone in a serious relationship to "read the menu," as they say. However, breaking the monogamous rule isn't to be taken lightly - for example, it's not something I could discuss with my partner, so cheating is off the table for me.

[ethanallen]

I don't think about cheating but I sometimes have sex with a woman and fantasize in my mind about having sex with one of her girlfriends. Is this cheating?

[Jacobbbb]

No I've never had any thoughts of cheating and I don't think I will. When I'm with someone my heart is fully with them

[menina]

I've never been in a relationship so that's impossible for me.

[ElementoP]

Oh ya, I'm gonna answer that. I can't wait to have a bunch of angry people who got cheated on call me trash

[Sour-rose]

Never. Because my relationships didn't last that long.

[Idkwtfimdoing96]

no... if I like someone my heart is fully with them even if Ik they don't like me back lol

[elly91]

So far the idea of cheating hasn't crossed my mind.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

No i can honestly say i never had thoughts if cheating ever

[AndrésC64]

Absolutely. When I was married I'm actually amazed that I didn't cheat. We literally went years without sex.

[Sparkie460]

Since I don't get aex it has crossed my mind. I'd never do it though

[Twalli]

Only insofar as wondering why people ever do it

[Dinosaursandanime65]

Something would be wrong with me if I ever did

[Lucy68]

No but I have been cheated on

[llorando]

Never been in a relationship yet.