If a guy, or girl for that matter, asks me out on a date I like to try and make sure they aren't dating anyone else who may be hanging in the false belief that they are in a committed relationship with them.
Sometimes they are good at hiding it, like taking off engagement rings temporarily, etc.
I have no desire for cheating because I don't need to prove myself or others my own attractiveness. The excitation in doing something forbidden isn't a thing I want in a relationship. Maybe I've been cheated but I don't have necessary interest to dig in the past. With exception of my first one, I didn't have any expectations in men I'm dating.
I been on both side of that ! I have been cheated on and I have also been the one who cheated but I am totally against it now and would never cheat on someone again cause that shit hurts. The way I see it YOU MAN ENOUGH TO WHORE AROUND YOUR MAN ENOUGH TO GET A SHOVEL TO THE FUCKIN FACE;
Cause I was treated like I didn't exist and he made me do messrd up things like to make sure he had his fix everyday and he hit me but it was 11 years I wasted with him
If anyone ever hits you, leave. Part of loving someone is trying to do no harm to them. It doesn't matter if you're a man or a women, if every keeps their hands to themselves, it'll be okay. Otherwise, they don't really love you.
If it was sexual, or for emotional support, it's cheating. She's supposed to go to you for that. If it was platonic (sports weather politics, religion, opinions on anything other than sex or relationships, etc.), then its not.
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