Have You Ever Cheated In A Relationship? Or Have You Just Been Cheated On?

[Aphrodite801]

It’s really not that hard to not cheat. I would 100% never cheat on my boyfriend.

I have cheated before and have been cheated on

I have cheated on someone but I’ve never been cheated on

I have been cheated on but never cheated

I’ve never cheated or been cheated on

[laurieluvsit]

No, and I don't like people that do cheat.

If a guy, or girl for that matter, asks me out on a date I like to try and make sure they aren't dating anyone else who may be hanging in the false belief that they are in a committed relationship with them.

Sometimes they are good at hiding it, like taking off engagement rings temporarily, etc.

[Aphrodite801]

So if your brother cheated on his girlfriend, and she asked you if he cheated on her. You would tell him?

[laurieluvsit]

No, I would make her tell him or tell her to go find someone else.

[Aphrodite801]

You mean you would make him tell her?

[Aphrodite801]

I meant to say *tell her lol

[laurieluvsit]

Oh yes, I misread your question, sorry :(

[FreyaRed]

I have no desire for cheating because I don't need to prove myself or others my own attractiveness. The excitation in doing something forbidden isn't a thing I want in a relationship.
Maybe I've been cheated but I don't have necessary interest to dig in the past. With exception of my first one, I didn't have any expectations in men I'm dating.

[brezzybaby]

I been on both side of that !
I have been cheated on and I have also been the one who cheated but I am totally against it now and would never cheat on someone again cause that shit hurts. The way I see it YOU MAN ENOUGH TO WHORE AROUND YOUR MAN ENOUGH TO GET A SHOVEL TO THE FUCKIN FACE;

[Aphrodite801]

Ok but why did you cheat

[brezzybaby]

Cause I was treated like I didn't exist and he made me do messrd up things like to make sure he had his fix everyday and he hit me but it was 11 years I wasted with him

[nonyabeezwax132342]

If anyone ever hits you, leave. Part of loving someone is trying to do no harm to them. It doesn't matter if you're a man or a women, if every keeps their hands to themselves, it'll be okay. Otherwise, they don't really love you.

[LeaveMeSortaAlone]

I cheated but never been cheated on. It's not about bragging or any stereotypical assumption of why people do what they do. People do what they do.

[Aphrodite801]

So you cheated just to cheat

[LeaveMeSortaAlone]

Yes in a form

[s10sleeper]

I’ve never been unfaithful in my life, but have been cheated on so many times that it becomes harder to trust in a new relationship.

[Shedontloveme]

Recently I have found out that my wife was texting an ex lover but she says it doesn’t count as cheating

[Aphrodite801]

So why was she texting him?

[nonyabeezwax132342]

If it was sexual, or for emotional support, it's cheating. She's supposed to go to you for that. If it was platonic (sports weather politics, religion, opinions on anything other than sex or relationships, etc.), then its not.

[Aphrodite801]

That’s your opinion, a lot of people do actually take that as cheating as well

[nonyabeezwax132342]

So no one can talk to the opposite sex at all? Or is because its an ex?

[Shedontloveme]

He wanted her to meet him at a motel, so his intentions were clear.

[Shedontloveme]

She should have ended the conversation right then and there

[nonyabeezwax132342]

She should have, yeah.

[Wise4myage]

D. I've never cheated and don't see the point in it.

[Anonymous]

I've cheated several times and I have been cheated on once.
Yeah, it's not that hard to not cheat, but it's also easy to get away with it.

[Aphrodite801]

So? Doesn’t excuse being a hoe

[InYourHead]

I've never been cheated on but I have cheated

[HeartFullOfGlue]

I've cheated but not in a relationship