My boyfriend always ask me if I want to marry him in a conversation?

[Ezra_lila]

Its like if we're having fun together suddenly he will pop the question "Do you want to marry me?" and I will answer it, "Yes". It always goes and goes but he didn't ask it in a serious matter. I don't know if its for fun or something. I met him like over a year ago already. I'm not in a rush as well as not that desperate in getting into serious commitment but I'm a little confused since he always act like this for over 2 months now.

[SueShe]

Even though it does not sound serious, there is more to it than a simple joke.

The fact that he keeps repeating this question signifies that it is a topic that is occupying him intensely. If you ask jokingly a question over and over again, that is indicative that the topic is affecting him.

Even though you answer "yes", you should be careful because he is testing you. I would have a serious talk with him about this topic and ask him for his reasons why he puts this question on the table. Tell him what your feelings are on the subject and if he is serious about it. If he replies that he is not serious, then simply tell him to refrain from asking it in the future.

[Ezra_lila]

Thanks for your words! Maybe he just asked it for like testing me if my answer will change as the days goes by.

[SueShe]

He is probably testing you but you should let him know what you honestly think of it and set the record straight. If you feel that you are not ready, then let him know in a serious way to avoid any misunderstanding.

[Ezra_lila]

Thanks I'll do that. Greek to me since I'm new in this kind of relationship.

[SueShe]

Just don't let yourself be forced into something you don't want or are not comfortable with. It is better to wait a while and weigh all the pros and cons of such an important issue. Good luck.

[PrettyPriya]

@ezra_lila my apologies to do this on your question, but I have to update @SueShe

Problem sorted with the spammer. Let's see if admin wants pleasant Priya or cranky Priya when they review that. Another day of rain for the most part here. I does appear like it will clear up a bit... when we leave Thursday. 😞

[SueShe]

@PrettyPriya Ah, on my end of the planet, the sun has returned and the temperatures are happily climbing again into the thirties.

Did you get an extra suitcase to pack your "you know what"? It cannot be wrinkled. Also, remember it is going to be Terminal 1 when you leave. Have a safe trip.

[PrettyPriya]

@SueShe Lucky for me, that item stays here. They will make the necessary alterations from the fitting and keep it locked away. I will have one more opportunity to try it on and adjust in early December.

Next time I (or we) do travel, I think that I will just let you plan it. You are far better than I am at this. I only know where the airport is because we happened to pass it on the way to a park on the one of very few nice days there have been. I had packed my snowsuit just in case.

[SueShe]

@PrettyPriya If you also leave your snowsuit behind, make sure to get another once you get back to your end of Antarctica.

I just found something that might fit you when you get back.

[boredgal]

that's kinda sweet that he's already thinking of marrying you, that means he imagines a future with you. don't think too much about it maybe that just how he expresses how much he loves you. just enjoy where you are right now and the right time will come for you both.

[WindAtMyBack]

Sounds like he's testing the waters. It is probably something that he has thought about, but maybe not seriously at this point. He might be prudently giving it more time first.

If you want a future with this guy it's certainly not a bad thing.

[crossdressingrihno]

I don’t know but my best guess is that he has been thinking about marriage and while he saying joking way to you he’s seriously considering it in his head

[ProVox]

He's fishing. He's definitely head over heels for you, but this behavior could also turn out to be possessive trait. Js

[Fromdusktilldawn]

He's either simpin or he just idealizes marriage way too much. Its not "disney'ish happily ever after", most guys nowadays avoid marriages.

[FunkyMonkee]

How would that work? Most people I know of get married in a church!

[Anonymous]

you're lucky mine won't give me a yes or no i'm always left hanging by her regardless of how many times i've asked her to marry me

[Anonymous]

Yeah, he doesn't sound too serious.

[Ezra_lila]

thanks

[Iron_Man]

you guys talk to each other about it

[Ezra_lila]

okay we'll do that

[baserunner611]

He want to marry you