I saw my bfs iPad when he met me use it. In the messengers I read a thread with him talking to the mother of his child (ex).
She said she missed him and loved him. He then said he had to go and hope she was doing well. She said ok have a goodnight.
20 minutes later he sent a beautiful photo of her in a restaurant as if it was their date night.
What does this mean? Why did he send a photo of her to herself on what it appears to be a possible date night between them?
If they have a young child together then there has to be some very clear boundaries, and texting her like that is for sure crossing it. I’m currently in a relationship with a man who has a kid with someone, and he does not communicate with his bm outside of very specific things about their son. Definitely no sending romantic pics or checking in to see how one another is. No secrets (which it looks like your boyfriend is being sneaky. Like would he have told you about those messages if you didn’t see them on your own? Sounds like no). He texts with his phone where I can see, and does things to make me confident he is not disrespecting or cheating on me. Your boyfriend should do the same, because it sounds like him and her could be a thing again at some point.
I have NO IDEA why people give their personal digital devices to other people for them to use and expect that they'll have privacy.
HOWEVER, why were you reading his personal messages!!! His conversation with his child's mother, his titular "ex," is none of your business.
But since you HAVE read his personal messages, it seems only fair that you tell him you did nsince he gave you his IPAD, and his conversation with his "ex" felt suspicious/uncomfortable for you.
Then you get to hear his explanation about the photo, about her confession of love for him and all the mess you've walked into by reading said messages. I admit, none of it sounds particularly good and you may have to prepare yourself for not being involved with a man who has a child with another woman and sends a picture of his ex TO his ex for some unknown reason after her confession of her undying love for him.
Be prepared.
I don’t know and it is real confusing 🤷🏻♂️
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