Have you ever felt like cheating on your partner though you love em?

[janet101]

[20yearsolder]

I sure have, I've been married for 32 years, I was actually unfaithful once. Well more than once but with the same person. I really don't regret it either.

[FallonSamuels]

Doesn’t guilt eat away at you?

[20yearsolder]

For some reason it doesn't

[FallonSamuels]

But you still love your wife?

[FallonSamuels]

Sorry if I’m asking a lot of questions but I just want clarification. I think we’re conditioned to associate cheating with someone not loving their partner. It’s just appalling to see that the two are mutually exclusive

[20yearsolder]

I do love my wife. I also love the woman that I had the affair with. You can ask me any question you want. If it gets too personal I'll tell you or respond in a PM

[FallonSamuels]

Are you still with your mistress too? Or you ended things?

[20yearsolder]

No it ended, it lasted about a year and a half. She was married also

[Danny_dan92]

Yes I have and I regret it. Why? Because looking back I should’ve just have dumped her instead of doing the very same thing she did to me

[JessJJ]

Yes. I've cheated on exes and my current boyfriend, I'm not proud of it but I know what makes me happy.

[KarinMcDonald]

If it is consensual, then it's not cheating.

[Hanrej]

I have not no but I understand some people do. The moral thing to do is discuss it with your partner. At the very least discussing it should be safe and perhaps you can reach an agreement. If he agrees he could have conditions or perhaps he is secretly turned on by the thought and let you do as you please.

[JustADudePlayinADude]

I'd rather just dump them if I was having those thoughts.

[Anonymous]

Yes sometimes I'll sext or give a blowjob or something.

[Wise4myage]

No, I have never had such thoughts when I was dating.

[Cheerfull009]

If you feel about cheating you don't love your partner

[ChooChooHaha]

No. Cause that means I don't love them.

[LazerBean]

Nope.

[panamared1]

several times