How do I be a "good girl" while still standing up for myself at the right times?

[Anonymous]

I don't give a lot to other people because I'm lazy, unintelligent, and insecure. So, I just try to be someone who's willing to do things for others and help them, while still staying in my place as a less useful person.

But, sometimes, it's just not worth it. Like if a guy is aggressively asking for nudes. In most cases, I don't know when I shouldn't allow someone to treat me a certain way. So, how can I know?

[DavidRaul]

When someone is asking for nudes aggressively, why don't you block him. He can't respect you. You are a good woman. You don't have to do anything for such fools. When you are standing for yourself, someone might like it and some don't. You stood up for your self respect. there's nothing wrong in it. If someone can't respect you the way you want, they have no rights to be treated good.

[VikingWarLord]

Just be a GOOD little GIRL, and remember to call me SIR, MASTER and DADDY whenever I tell you to do something! any of those will work

[Asker]

ah :(