How to stop loving someone?

[Anonymous]

I want to loving someone I mean my boyfriend or husband tobe it's just that way I can keep my posture and stay strong so that he can't hurt me

[Circlesgames]

U don't do that, unless he hurts u all the time, then u can try to expect less, expectations is what hurts us, expect the opposite and u will be surprised how happy u are...

He said he will take u out today, espect him not to, and u will be happy of the result

[Asker]

I just don't want anything from him just some love

[Circlesgames]

If he doesn't give you love, and when I mean love I mean hug you sometimes
Cuddle with you
Play with you sometimes
Respect you in a way just as you do to him
All this not too much but if he at least does them it's better than at all and he could just be busy.
But if he doesn't at all then all you need to do is communicate with him,
If you have tried communicating and it didn't work can I know what he said when you try to talk with him

[missniki222]

I know how you feel. My boyfriend and I have said some really bad things to each other especially things we've done wrong in the past forgave each other and moved on. And then it gets brought up again. I'm tired of being hurt, confused and feeling like I'm not enough. If you find a way to just stop loving someone please let me know.

[Asker]

Same here he changing day by day

[Asker]

I'm just tired I just try to not care for him I just try to avoid him

[Circlesgames]

Don't, doing that your only living in an illusion where ur in there just not to feel hurt but if u see another lover you would leave him for that lover, that's a bad way to avoid fight, it'd hard and frustrating to be in that stage but you guys are even better compared to those who are on ldr, when things like this happen, it's a whole new trauma for them

[Circlesgames]

Unless this is a contract marriage or u have güven birth, I don't see the reason to not care for him and still be in the relationship, it's like u already don't care

[Jamesshinobi]

you leave and never think about them again. its that easy