What could I do to help the situation? just let him be? or try and if he lets me go for it and if not let him come to me?

[bbhhgirl]

I think I have hurt my boyfriend feelings twice in a row this week back to back over thinking. I have been trying to make it up but I think he is trying to get back at me even though I am trying to make it up.

[MmmDaddy]

What he's doing makes no sense.. no reply yet wants to see you that bad yet no reply... huh dont hurt him more if you did but keep an eye on fishy shit

[bbhhgirl]

Thank you

[MmmDaddy]

You're welcome.. I do t want to say he's doing something without knowing for a fact.. but I'm confident there's something... it's just sounds off.. did he always act like this? How long have you been together?

[bbhhgirl]

Yes he always acts like this I have mentioned it to him more than once and he still does it. Like today we were supposed to meet at the beach and I think because I didn’t go to his house last night today he says “ he will try to tell me when he is on his way to the beach “ and that was three hours ago. So only thing I think I can do is give him space and I asked him if I could bring breakfast by in the morning now I’ll wait for his response , only thing I think I can do is try until maybe he just stops responding one day or breaks up with me. I don’t know

[spartan55]

Okay, could you explain what happened?

[bbhhgirl]

So basically last night my boyfriend work till 7pm , he texted asking what I had planned I told him nothing he didn’t reply in 30 minutes , I asked him did he want company , still response for a hour. I told him how did he ask me that and always take a long time to respond I don’t understand that. He tells me he didn’t know that because he didn’t respond meant that I wouldn’t come , he though I would still come. So I didn’t go I picked up a late shift , this morning he told me that he wanted to meet and will “ try to tell me when he gets to the beach “ which I took as he needs a break today because it’s been three hours almost since I talked to him. He told me it hurts him because he “it just hurts to be missing you and needing your presence”

[MmmDaddy]

Honestly I would have over thought all that too
My mind would have been racing I get you.. it's the thoughts of simple things then it goes Into the scarier things.. like is he okay.. did he die.. he must be busy but with what.. is he cheating on me.. with who if he is cheating... would he really do that.. if he would does she know about me... if he wanted someone else why wouldn't he just tell me... so this is how my mind works when I dont hear from my guy in up to three hours.. relationship anxiety

[Jerre]

I would let him come to you

[Jerre]

@bbhhgirl Thank you for the Like

[MmmDaddy]

I think she should keep an eye out for fishy shit.. dont hurt him worse but keep an eye open... something sounds off with this one
He wants to see her so bad yet doesn't reply asks HER a question yet dossnt look at her answer or reply this lasts up to 3 hours... there's just something not right about this and it doesn't make sense.. I think she should see what his needs are and comfort him but also keeping an eye out for suspicious behavior like hiding his phone while he's near her or swiping away messages so she can't see them.. red flags