Should I let him come to me?

[Peanut_Lemon]

Today, I spoke with him today and I think that's good enough to say the least.
I feel as if the ball is in his court, and I'm not about to chase him, and let him come to me if he wants to shoot his shot.

[noohair]

You are 15; I have nothing to say except making men pass tests is not a positive thing for the man. It can backfire.

[Peanut_Lemon]

Really? Well, could you elaborate please?

[noohair]

If you kept being tested and realizes that this will never end, what would you do?

[Peanut_Lemon]

Would walk away if I'm being honest.

[noohair]

Eventually you will figure it out when someone starts testing you and you get pissed off for not being trusted.

[Peanut_Lemon]

Oh, but that could go either way. Me personally, I'm highly skeptical of anyone who's my type AND they've been hinting that they are interested in me. Usually people like to have situationships, flings, baby mamas and etc. Most just don't want to be played.

[Anonymous]

This feels very vague lol

[Peanut_Lemon]

Feels or looks?

[Opinion Owner]

Either one, there just isn’t much info here. Like who is this guy to you? Have you been the one initiating more in the past?

[Peanut_Lemon]

Well, over the course of three months and counting, he's been glancing my way since and seems to have some sort of vague interest with me. I'm not saying he does, but it seemed likely.
For example, yesterday at lunch he was staring at me while he was walking towards my general direction. Then, he stood right next to me and looked at me.
At the time, I thought he was going to say something to me or whatever, but then he walked away to his friends once I didn't say anything to him.
Later when I was further up the line, he stood by where you leave with your food and I sort of thought he could of been waiting for me to say something to him before he went back to his friends.
When I got home after so many hours after it had occured, I had a hunch that he could of been going back and forth with his friends that I wasn't saying anything to him and he kept coming back trying out his options.

[Opinion Owner]

Sounds like he’s had ample opportunity to make a move if he wanted to and he hasn’t. It’s been a while since I was in high school, but one thing I will always remember is that many of those boys are just immature and/or clueless. He could like you and just not be sure how to approach you, or just be childish and his friends joke about you or him having a crush. I hated those groups of boys who would keep looking in your direction but clearly chatting amongst each other about you but one particular guy won’t make a move😂. That wasn’t attractive to me at all, I wanted a confident guy since I was shy myself, one of us had to have balls lol. Anyway my point is there’s no telling if he will approach or if there’s romantic feelings for the ball to be in his court in the first place. But if he does like you and isn’t having the courage to say something, then I wouldn’t worry about him.

[Peanut_Lemon]

Understandable, and thank you for the example. This makes a little more sense.

[trustman34]

Try to be honest what ll u do when he comes