What qualities do you expect from your daughter's boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

She's my neighbour and her sister is my friend. We know eachother from childhood, so I still sometimes do immature funny things with her sister infront of her parents.

So they think I'm immatured and I might cheat their daughter when i get matured. So they don't really trust me and is asking her to leave the relationship. What should I do? How can I show them that I'm serious about this relationship and is looking for a future together? I cannot talk to them directly about this because they don't like it.

[Thepumpkinhead]

Oh men i got in-law problems too. They're all crazy.

But give your girl the best treatment. Treat her out on dates. Give her nice things or even just a love letter.

Tell her sincerely you love her. And she'll be the one to encourage her parents to think differently about you

[Asker]

Thanks dear. Yeah she already faced a lot of oppositions from her family about this relationship and she still stand strong.

[Thepumpkinhead]

Yeah in laws are the worst but you gotta keep up because u can't do anything about them

[Asker]

Yeah lol. Best wishes to you too

[Thepumpkinhead]

Same goes

[WhitneySnow]

Talk to them directly. But if the girl is under 18 she might have to listen to her parents and not see you until you guys are old enough (or at least get really good at sneaking around).

[WhitneySnow]

If they do make her stop seeing you just be patient. Eventually she’ll be old enough not to have to listen to them anymore.

[Asker]

No she's 22 and I'm 26. Her parents are conservative and says she's still a student and it's not time for a relationship.

[WhitneySnow]

Oh ok. She might still have to listen to them if she’s still a student and she lives in their house and they pay for her school. But you guys can still sneak around without having to worry about legal consequences.

[Asker]

Yeah you're right. Thank you

[WhitneySnow]

You’re welcome

[exitseven]

I expect him to be scared shitless of me.