Why is it that people who love to say they "tell things like it is" get upset when people tell them how they really feel the same way about them?

[jongreat46]

Person A: I love people who are honest.

Person B: I think you need to be more tactful.

Person A: I'm just being honest, if they don't like what I say then they are just oversensitive babies.

Person B: I thought you liked it when people are honest.

Person A: No response and leaves.

[river23]

I would love to say I'm not that kind of person, but I don't really know for sure. I mean I should know right, or at least I think I should know but I don't. I do believe I won't become that way because no matter how much it hurts I'd rather others be honest with me hurt me if they must and get it over with than to drag the shit out by complaining and acting as if I'm higher than them. I also don't truly like being mean to anyone because it hurts me to, and I've learned to just shut up and take it especially if it's true when others are honest with me but if their honest with others sense I don't know the truth bout them I try to defend them because if I do know it's not true I won't let others be assholes to the innocent cuz I've never seen myself as innocent nor will I ever. And I think honest is alright to a certain extent but if your gonna use it just to hurt someone get back at someone or anything like that then you have no right to be honest cuz I believe that is wrong and the same goes for me I'm not excluding myself I'm not gonna say I'm better than anyone because I'm not but if your not gonna be well not exactly nice but good about how to choose to receive and deliver the truth then shut the fuck up. Sure sometimes the truth is used in bad ways for a better outcome but still I believe it's wrong but that doesn't mean I won't use it if it means things turn out for the better in the long run. I'm also a very blunt and honest person, I say what's on my mind I have no filter or at least I didn't before I've created one not for my sake but others because I believe if I didn't I might affect someone's life who might effect someone else's without knowing it because I have this strong belief that we're all connected whether we believe it or not we all play a role in everyone's life even if it's a small insignificant one all the small insignificant problems people used to think we're nothing led to the world we're currently living in did it not. Sorry this has gotten off topic but I'll still reply with it because it's the truth if anyone hates me has something to say please say it I truly want to hear it so I know how you feel and then I can decide whether to shut up or keep being me.

[maximumpower]

Bc they're living in a dream world and can't handle truth.